QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: salam sir ji mujhe puchna hai k kya main apni biwi ki nicha se chaat sakhta hu ager us ki ijzat ho to or kya hum apni biwi ko picha se kar sakhty han ager hum dono ka dil kare to ? plzz mujhe jawab dai

Answer: 1)Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Albetta is ka koi kafarra nhi hai (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) 2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: bivi ke sat hambistari kitne kitne dino me kr sakte h ? Hum bistari ka sahi islamic tarika konsa h ?

Answer: 1)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi karsakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kartay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. (tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). Biwi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) .Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: islam main biwi ki back sai jima krna jaiz hay?

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: to phr log wife k back use karny ko haram q samjty ha ans me .

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: As salamalkum . Mera sawal ye hai kya apni bewi ke pechle (ass) hise mein sex kya to nika tuoth jata hai ?

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. Aur is sai nikah batil nhi hota hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67)( Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: shadi ky baat biwi sy kab tak zina karna hota hai aur yeh amal roz karna hota hai yeh weak par hota hai ? aur jab preganent hojai tu zina hosakta hai

Answer: Shadi k baad biwi sai hambistri ki jati hai na k zina aur jab biwi hamila ho jae to mustahabb hai k jima krnay sai pehlay wazoo kia jae. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) Is k alawa chand ayyam mai jima krna haram hai os mai sai aik ye hai k jab aurat haiz ki halat mai ho to os sai jima krna haram hai aur is k alawa bacha paida honay k 10 din tk jo khoon ata hai os mai jima krna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448,504) .Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: sir. ager ist raat aurut kah k mjy ya sex etc. pasand nhn. ma nhn karna chati. tu phir b zabar dasti kar shakta han

Answer: Jis aurat ka daimi nikah hua ho os k lie zarori(wajib) hai k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil krna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e uzr(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay. 2) Agar koi aurat hambistri aur jinsi lazzat k silsile me shohar ki khowish puri na karay to shohar us ki roti , kapray aur makan ka zimadar nahi hai. Agar chahe wo shohar k pas hi rahay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2376-77). .Update on dated 14-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: meri biwi shadi se pehly kisi k sath sex karti rahi, us ne mujy bata dia, main ne usy maaf b kar dia, ab wo kehty hay k jis k sath wo sex karty thi uska penis boht big tha, mera to normal hay kia humain ed ko chor dena chahiy

Answer: 1)Mard ko chahae k jis aurat sai shadi karna chahta hai os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukravi muamilaat me shohar ki madad gar sabit ho. Mard k lie ye munasib nahi he k biwi k intikhab me is ka metmae nazar sirf is ka zaaheri husn o Jamaal aur maal o dulat ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 386 pg # 232). 2)Jahan tk uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal hai, tu osay bs is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani aurat ki sharam gah) ko mutaharrik kar sakay or sub se ziyada hasaas(sensitive) sharam gah ka bahir ka hissa hota hai. Khaas tour per bazr(Clitoris) or os tk phochne k liay chota uzo(penis) bhi kafi hota hai. Laihaza penis ka chote bara(large) hone sai koi faraq nahi parta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bara(large) hona takleef ka sabab hota hai. (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,vakil e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ) .Update on dated 14-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kya sex k dorran apni bv k peechy wali side may ungli dalna bbuurrra amal hai?

Answer: Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se cho sakhtay hein. laikin jism k hissay k alawa koi aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi kr saktay.or shohar ka bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli daal sakta hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236).Update on dated 14-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kya marrd sex may apni wife ki breast ko chooos skta hai? or agr choosny k dorran bv ka doudh mard k muu may chala jaye to kya dooudh harramm ho ga?

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay, laikin agar shohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jaays.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). .Update on dated 14-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).