QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: sir mri shadi ko 1 saal ho gya ha...mre husband main gusa bht ha or gusay main mjy bar bar khtay hain jao apnay maa k ghr main nahi rh sakta tum jesi orat k sath koi esa wazifa bata dain k un ka gusa door ho jay...kindly

Answer: jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko bawazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: how to control gusa?

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay ke liye surah-e-aal-e-imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga.(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Ager kisi ko bohat gussa aye to kia karna chahie?

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain. Gussay ko door karnay k lie surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: mjy gusa boht ata hy plz is ka hal bata dain mary hr kese k sath gusy ki waja sy rishta kharab ho rha hy

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: ghar me laraai jagra hota hai. janwar palny ka shoq hai par bach nhi paty/

Answer: Ager gussa aane wale shaks ke uper sura e Anaam ayat no 13 ko phar kar dam kiya jaae to us ka gussa door ho gaae ga, or is ayat ko kasrat se pharye. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 135 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: Aslkm sir...mujhe bahuth jaldi gussa aata...aur choti choti baton per bahuth jaldi irretate hojati hu aur galat way main sb se baat karti hu..plzzz koi aisa wazifa bataye jis se mera gussa km hojaye aur main sb k saat pyaar aur narmi se baat karo..

Answer: Jo kohe kise hajat k lie surah yaseen ki ayat no:40 ko 7 baar perhe to is ki hajar pure hoghe. ( ref: payaam shifa, pg: 249) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Aslam o alaikum sir,mera sawal hai mera shohar ghuse ka bohat taiz hai ,bachon pr bhi barono ki tarh ghusa krta h chilata hai chezon ki tor for krta h,bche is rawaye se mayos ar khofzada hote hain.plz sir ghusa kam krne ka koi wazifa batayae . ,

Answer: 1)Gussay ka ilaj chand cheezo par moqoof hai jis mai sai kuch aap ki khidmat mai tehreer krtay hain. 1: un hadeeso ko parhain k jo gussay ki muzammat mai warid hui hain. 2: un hadeeso ko parhain jo gussa na krnay k sawab mai warid hui hain. Jaisa k hazrat paigambar s.a.w.w. sai marvi hadees hai k jo shakhs kisi par gussa na karay khuda roz e qayamat is par azab na karay ga. 3: jis shakhs par insan gussa krta hai to osay gor(ﻏﻮﺭ) krna chaheay (ﭽﺎﮩﻴﮱ) k os kamzor par jo qudrat osay hasil hui hai, os sai bohat ziada khuda gussa krnay wala hai pas halat e gussa mai itna khayal krna chaheay k khuda kahin isi terah apna gazab aap par jari na karay. 4: ye tas’sa’wur(ﺘﺼﻮﺭ) karain k gussay k waqt aap ki kis qism ki buri surat aur aap k ﺍﻋﺿﺎﺀ(body parts) kis terah mutaharik aur aap k afaal(ﺍﻔﻌﺎﻞ) kis qadar ﺒﮯڈﻫﻨﮕﮯ aur aap ki guftugoo kis qadar ﺒﮯﺠﺎ ho jati hai. 2)Gussay k waqt shaitan sai panah leni chaheay aur “ ﺍﻋﻮﺫﺒﺎﷲﻤﻦﺍﻠﺷﻴﻂﺎﻦﺍﻠﺮﺟﻴﻢ ” parhni chaheay, agar kharay hon to beth jana chaheay, agar bethay hon to so jana chaheay, thanday pani sai wazoo krna chaheay aur ghusl krna gussay ki halat mai mufeed hai is sai gussa khatam ho jata hai aur hadees mai aya hai k agar kisi aisay shakhs par gussa aye jis sai khooni rishta rakhta ho to is k badan par hath rakhnay sai gussa khatam ho jata hai. (Ref : Urooj us Sadaat pg # 348-52) Gussay ko door karnay k lie surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: sir mera bhanjha hai wo zid bohat karta hai or har kisi ko marta hai or rat ko b sow nahi sakta humen lagta hai ke kisi ne us per kala jadu kiya huwa hai aap agar unka tor bata dento bari meherbani hogi

Answer: Rozana raat ko sone se pehle us per Sura e Yaseen pharain or is ka pani pilain. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 102 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: muje ha ba par gusa bh aa hai or sabr nai ho or ghar ma b larai hoty hai sir or mre dimag ma sabaq b yad nai hota plz is masle ko hal kare pplz

Answer: 1. Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pi lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 2. Ager gussa aane wale shaks ke uper sura e Anaam ayat no 13 ko phar kar dam kiya jaae to us ka gussa door ho gaae ga, or is ayat ko kasrat se pharye. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 135 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae). 3. Agar koi talib-e-ilm chata ha ke is ko sabaq yad ho jay tu is ko chaye ke Sura Aaraaf ayat 171 ko kisi kagaz per likh ker is kagas ko apnay mazmoon(sabject) ki kitab me rakh de tu wo sabaq is ko Insha Allah yad ho jay ga.(Ref: Naeemul amaal, pg#354)

Question: Sir mera chota bhai bht guse vala hy har waqt larae ya phr guse ma e rehta hy. sir koi wazifa bta dyn jis se uska gusa khtam hn jay or uska behave sb ky sath polite hn jay. JazakALLAH

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 36). Update on dated 23-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).