QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: bivi ke sath 4 mahine me ek bar jima zaroor karna chahiye leki jo log bahr mulko me rahte hai vo kam se kam 1 sal ya 2 sal me apne ghar jate hai kya is soorat me nikah batil hai

Answer: Agar biwi khud 4 mahinay sai ziada muddat k lie hambistari tark karnay par razi ho to koi masla nhi hai albetta is sai nikah batil nahi hot hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2382).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: A.O.A, mera sawal ye hay k shadi k bad kya husband apni wife ko nichay say chat sakta hey?

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgah sai niklnay wali ratoobat Halaq mia nah jaay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Sistani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Assalaam walaikom.shadi se pahle hamesha hamesha jaanbuj kar mani kharij karna.kya shaadi ke baad wife ko pregnancy na hone ki wajah ban sakti hai.plz janaab iska jawaab mere liye bahot zaruri hai.plz mujhey jawab dijiye.

Answer: 1)Istimna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Bacha paida krna Allah k hath mai hai insan sirf koshish kar sakta hai kisi kisi ko aik hi bar intercourse krnay sai hamal ho jata hai aur kisi ko saloo intercourse krnay k baad bhi bacha paida nhi hota hai. Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). .Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: mera sawal ye hai ke app mjhy biwi ke sath humbistre krny ka thek thek tareeka islami tareeka bta dain.

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: sir meri prblm hy k mn apni wife k sath sex ni kar pata jb bi karne lagta hn to sath lagate hi farig ho jata ho plz iska koi hal btayen

Answer: jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) Note : agar mard jaldi munzil ho jata yani foran mani nikl jati ho to jab mard ko lazat mehsoos ho to wo apnay khayalat ko bantain aur agar mani apni jigha sai harkat kar chuki ho to sans rokay ta k mani ruk jae aur inzal na ho. .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kia biwi apny shohr ka penis apny mouth mein ly skti hy

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: me jaanana chaata hun k jab pata chal jai k us ki begum pregnant ho gi ha starting days me hi . to kiya es dooran milny sy koi problems ho sakti ha ? or kiya kb tk nhi milna chaiye ?

Answer: 1) Jab biwi hamila ho to wazu kar k hambistri karna mustahib he. 2)Haamilah (pregnant) biwi say hambistari (Intercourse) kerna haram nahi hay.Biwi say halat e haiz(period) or nifaas main hambistari kerna haraam hay. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen,part#3,maslah#5 (tauzeehul masail,Ayatullah Sistani (d.b.),maslah #2382).,email Received from Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b),dated 13-07-10,Tauzee hul masail, maslah#448,504). Note: Doran e hamal jima kertay waqt is baat ka zaroor khiyaal rakha jay k aap jima k waqt bivi k pait per apnay jism ka wazan nah daalain, is say hamal ko nuqsaan pohanch sakta hay.aam taur per doctor hazraat 8th mahinay say jima kernay say mana kertay hain.laikin ye her aurat ki jismani kaifiyaat or taqat per muhasir (depend) hota hay.hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or hamal ko nuqsan pohchanay wali chizoo say perhaiz karain. .Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: ASSALAM O ALIKUM MERA SAWAL YA HAI KA AGAR MIAN (HUSBAND) APNI BV KO NAMALOMI MA PECHAY SA KARAY TO US KA KAFARA KAI HO GA?

Answer: Agar Biwi ki ijazat ho tu us k peechay intercourse kerna jaiz hai laikin shadeed makrooh hai aur agr biwi ijazat nah day tu ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Masail-e-muntakhaba Ayatullah Sistani d.b.,masla#70). .Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: awrat jab hiz ke halat min ho to shawhar ko kia parhiz karna chahin?agar is halat min aadme ko shawak aajain to kia karna chahy?

Answer: Agar koi shaks aurat k haiz ki halat mai jima(intercourse) karay tou haram hai aur ghunahgar hai laikin jima k ilawa baqi lazzat maslan bos-o-kinar(kissing wagera) krna jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 451,2426).Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: as salam wale kum agar mere shohar mujhe kiss karte hai to hum napaak hoge or kya gushal wajib hai

Answer: Jee nahi jima k alawa jinsi lazat hasil karnay sai insan par ghusl e janabat wajib nahi hota hai magar ye k mani na niklay. (Ref : Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition, maslah # 344).Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).