QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: sir Maine apne Bhabi se 30 bar zina kia tha aur humne tauba karliya aur hum apni karni pachtapa hy.. pls aap mujhe bataye ki Teri tauba kubool hog I..?

Answer: Imaam Jafar o Sadiq (a.s) ne farmaaya, jis ka mafhoom ye hai ke ager banda apne gunah ka is terhan iqraar kar le ke is ne apne Khaliq Allah Taala ke diye gaae hokum ki nafarmaani ki hai, or is nafarmani ki waja se is ko is ko esei pashemani ho jis ki waja se wo dubara gunah na kar sake to ALLAH TAALA bhi is ko muaaf kar ke is ki toba qabool kar leta hai.(Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e emaan o kuffur , baab # 188 , riwayat # 4 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: ma ne ik asi urat se zana kia ha jo k pasy(rupies) le kr sex krwati ha or kia is ka koi kafara ho sakta ha ...... or ma bohat zayada mashak zani krta hon kia is se chutkara mil sakta ha plz tell me ..MA BOHAT majboor hon

Answer: Ap per shadi karna wajib hai. or zina o istimna (musht zani) haraam o guhnaah e kabera hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: Mera sawal hai k jo aurat khud apni marzi sy zina kary us ko hum kia kehyn gy ... Aur aisay banday sy relation tor dyna chahiye kia ????

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). 2)Osay sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) 2) Agar kise k naike baat qabool karne ka ahtemal ho to amar bil maroof karna wajib hai.aur agar baat qabool karne ka ahtemal no ho to ehteyat wajib ye hai k karahat aur naraazghi k izhar ghunaghaar k is fail nashaista per kare chai janta ho k wo is ka asar nahe le gha. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2009 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Assalam o Alaikum hazrat main apni czn ko bht pyar krta hun maine us ko kisses ki us k boobs ko b suck kiya to kahin maine zina to nai kr liya..ans plZ

Answer: Shohar , biwi k alawa kise aur se jinse laszat hasil kar ghuna kabira hai. ( ref: minhaaj us sauleheen, jild, 1, masla 30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)

Question: a.o.a.......agar zina ho jay to kya larka r larki ka nikah jaiz ho ga zina k bad plzz ans

Answer: Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shohar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahi kar sakta. Jo aurat zina kaar mashoor ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per is aurat k toba karne se phele is k saath shadi karna jaiz nahe hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: sir zna sey bachney ka tariqa bta dain plz

Answer: Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumaar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # masla # 30, eidition 2009) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis se gunah hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Zina ka kaffara btna me questions parhy mgr kaffara n mila kaffara Btien ga kaffara kaffara

Answer: Zina ka kuffara sache dil se toba karna hai lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)

Question: agr aik larka larki aik dosry sy pyar jrty houn or iesi pyar mae aik dosry sy najaiz taluq kaim kr lyen or kuch log kehty hain pyar ma sb kuch jaiz ha likn ye aik gunnah ha ies ka kia krna chaiye

Answer: Zina gunah e kabeera hai,pechlay zina k leye tauba karain aur aenda gunah kernay say tauba karain. (Ref:Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1, masla#30) Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364)

Question: Meri shadi k 8 month bad meri biwi ne aik larka paida kiya jis k bare mein mujey baad mein pata chala k yeh mera beta nahi hai balky us ka kisi aur se shadi se zina ki waja se hamal ho gaya tha ab mein kya karun

Answer: Ager wo apne is kaam se nadim hai or ab ap ke sath ik sachi zindagi guzaarne ke liye tayaar hai to ap bhi muaaf kar dain. Lekin agr wo toba or istighfaar na kre or apne amal per baqi rahe(yani zinakaari na chore ) to behtar ye hai k ap usko talaq deden lekin talaq ki surat men apko uska mehr bhui ada krna hoga.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2367 , ALLAH Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: Salam. agar koi apse ye kahe k uss ne apki bevi se zina kya hai bt koi gawah na layay. aur apki bivi b iss baat ko na maane. aise sorat mein shohar kya kare. - bivi ko chorr de? - sahee rehnumai farmayen. mein bara pareshan hun. Jazak Allah.

Answer: Aap kay liye jaiz nahi hai k aap apni zauja par zina ka ilzaam lagaye jab apko shak(50%) ho ya gumaan(99%)ho. Ap k liye ilzaam lagana us surat me jaiz hai jab apko khud yaqeen ho jaye kay apki bivi nay zina kiya hai ye yaqeen us waqt hoga jab aap nay khud dekha ho ya 4 adil gawah tasdeeq karain k apki bivi ne zina kiya hai. (Ref: Minhaaj-us-Saaleheen part#3, Masla#662) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)