Question: Assalam o Alikum meri age 13 hai lekn mere dimag mai har waqt ladki, zina, porn, love he chal raha hota hai mai is gunnah se nijat paana chahta hoon or mai nikah bhe ni kar skta age choti hai toh
Answer: Hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Waswasae k lye ( la hula wala quwata illa billah) perhe.(mafati jinah pg# 208) Update on dated 13-07-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Agar koi shaks bar bar toba lare aur phir zina kare to us ki toba kobol hogi
Answer: Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se tuba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) tuba ye hai k aap apne galti per shermindaghe ka izhaar kare ,khuda se bakhshis o maqferat talab kare aur ghunaho ko choor dene ka pukta irada kar le . albatta pichle jitney baar aap ne tuba ki hai is ka aap per koi ghuna nahe hai. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 230, pg # 93). Update on dated 26-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Ager kisi ladki ne gair muslim se Zina kia to kya wo islam se khariz ho jayegi ? Zina k liye Saja kya he ?
Answer: Zina kerna ghunah e kabira hay, laikin zina kerne se deen se kharij nahi ho jaatay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #). Update on dated 01-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Ager kisi ladki ne gair muslim se Zina kia to kya wo islam se khariz ho jayegi ? Zina k liye Saja kya he ?
Answer: Zina kerna ghunah e kabira hay, laikin zina kerne se deen se kharij nahi ho jaatay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #). Update on dated 01-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Musht zani or zinnah dono he gunah hain. lakin kya musht zani krna zinah krny sy byhtar hy?
Answer: Mushtzani or zinah do hi gunahaan e kabira hain. Dono se bachna laazim hay. Kisi ko kerne ki ijazat nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30). Update on dated 06-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)
Question: Mera sawal ye hai k ager hm kisi larki k sath kissing or touching karey lakin intercourse nai karey tu kia ye zina hai or is ki maafi kaisey hogi or ye gunna e kabira hai ya sagira
Answer: 1)Na-mehram aurat ka boosa laina ya os ko choona(i.e touch) haram hay, laikin ye zina nahi hay. Zina karna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 10-04-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Mera sawal ye hai k ager hm kisi larki k sath kissing or touching karey lakin intercourse nai karey tu kia ye zina hai or is ki maafi kaisey hogi or ye gunna e kabira hai ya sagira qoitrate
Answer: 1)Na-mehram aurat ka boosa laina ya os ko choona(i.e touch) haram hay, laikin ye zina nahi hay. Zina karna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 10-04-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: salam,mene apni maa k sath zina kiya h,kya iski mafi h,meri pareshani door karey
Answer: Zina kerna ghunah e kabira hay, laikin zina kerne se deen se kharij nahi ho jaatay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30). Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 14-08-17. Update on dated 25-08-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Assalam un alaikum Agha mera app se sawal h k agr koi ladka kisi hindu ladki k sath zinah krta h To usske liye kya hukum h k vo kse khud se maafi mnge aur iss ka kafara kya h wassalam
Answer: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 16-03-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Assalamu alaikum mera ye sawal he k agr kisi ladki ko zina krna guna he kya ya condom use ho fr bhi guna he bina shadi shuda
Answer: Yeh b zina shumar hoga. Zina kerna gunah-e-kabeera hai,ap par toobaa kerna wajib hai. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #30). Update on dated 01-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).