Question: sir mere liye koi rishta nai arha,lakin main jiaz tariqe se shadi krna chahti hn,plz mje btaye k main konsa wir karon k rishta ho jaaye
Answer: Aurat k lie apni sharam gah ko itna cherna jaiz nahi he k is ki lazzat arooj tak pounch jey aur usi inzal ho jay aur agar us se is ki lazzat arooj tak pounch jay aur us ka pehna wala mawad kharij ho jay to is per ghusl wajib ho ga. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 506 pg # 266)
Question: kya islam me akale me hastmaithun karna jayaz hai agar nahi to phir sex control kaise kare
Answer: Istemna kerna (hand practice) haraam hai chahae kisi bhi zariye sai ho (Ref: Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayatullah Sistani d.b Masla#462, pg#253) Jo shaks shadi nai kernay ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah #2407) (Khuda aap ki Tawfiqaat mein Izafa Farmaye)
Question: Salam,sir mera sawal ye hai k hath se jo lazzat hasil karte hai uske nuksan kya hai,usse bachne ka tareka,or jo kuch gumaya hai uska sahi elaz kya hai.pls help me,mai bahot pareshan hoon
Answer: 1. First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2. Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3. Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 4. Ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k • mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en • ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. • khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. • Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Kya hand sex karna guna hai to is se kaise chutkara paye.
Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: kia masturbation karna haram hai?
Answer: 1)Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 3)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Question: assalam walaykum. ya Ali as madad. 1) kiya fiqa jaffarya ke nazdeeq masht zani(khud lazzati)haram he. khuda hafiz
Answer: 1)Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 3)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Question: mai kabhi kabhi masturbate karta hu aur waise hi subha namaz padh leta hu means bagair gusl k to kya muze gusl karns padega
Answer: 1)Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 3)Ghusl e jannabat wajib namaz parhnay k lie aur is jaisi doosri ibadaat k lie wajib ho jata he. Lakin namaz e mayyat , sijdah e sawh , sajdah e sawh aur quran majeed k wajib sajdooh k lie ghusl e jannabat zurari nahi he. Aur bagair ghusl k namaz nahi ho gi.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 356) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: muj say bardasht nahi hota hai aur main wash main ja kar apnay nafas ko istimal karluta hun plz mujhay bataei k main kiya karo jis say meri ya gandi adat dor hojae main buhat tang hun
Answer: 1)Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 3)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 4) Is ka behtrin elag shadi karna he. Aur agar koi shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho to os k lie shadi karna wajib he. Aur agar shadi karna mumkin na ho to roza rakhain q k hadees me aya he k roza dhal he aur koshis karain k ijtema me rehain aur akalay na rehain is k alawa shawat wali filmain na dekhain. (Ref email rec from ayatullaha sistani d.b. dated : 2011/7/19)
Question: salaam sir.mera aap se ye sawaal hai ke mera dost 14 years ka hai or wo mujh se keh raha thaa ke wo apna mada nikaal sakta hai so mene ye awaal aap se kiya or oos ka mada nikalna os ko kamzoor karskta hai please reply kare jaldi emergency.khuda hafiz.
Answer: Istimna (hand practice) kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462 pg # 253). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye
Question: I feel Very Sad that Sometime i do masturbation. Please Tell me the way how to Stop it And ESS K GUNAH K BAREY MAI MUJHEY DETAIL SE BATA DAIN AUR PLZ YE BI BATA DAIN K ESS SE CHUTKARA KAISEY MUMKIN HAI.
Answer: 1- Hand practice or masturbation is not permissible under any circumstances. You are not allowed to excite yourself with your own hands, but you can do it with your wife’s hand. (Ref : http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ) 2-Method of giving up sin: 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)