Question: ASSALAM O ALIKUM sir main mustzani krta rha hon ab 1maah ho gya hy nai kee meri timeing 30second ho gee aur penis (azuh) b tera ho gya hy muje aisa koi tarika btain meri timeing achi ho aur penis(azuh) b sedha ho jaya ALLAH NIGHBAN.
Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . 1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: asslamu alaikum mera sawal hai ke kya hath se penis ko hilane ke baad jo mani kharij hoti hai wo mani jameen par girti hai .to gusl wajib hai.aur hath se hilana sahi hai ki nahi.
Answer: 1) Istimna (handpractice) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) 2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) 3) Shohar aur biwi k alawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), 4) Jo shak shadi nah hone ki waja se faile haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 5)Jis insaan se ghunah hoa ho wo Sab se pehlay sharmindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: Kay mard apne.haat se haatbhati kar sakta hai aur bivi apne haat se apne husband ka kar sakti hai kya ye islam me jayez hai kya reply plz
Answer: 1-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253). 2-Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice)) kar sakti hai.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Mai bahut muth marta hoon aur mai is aadat ko hatana chahta hun par hat nahin pa raha
Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253) 2) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Mashtzini ki islam main kay saza ha
Answer: Istemna ka kaffara toba krna hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 200,pg # 82)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: Salam mjhay muthh marny ki bury adat parh gay hai or mery age abhi 7 saal hai koi aisa tarika batain kai meri ye adat khatam hojay or main is sai bach jaon....plz reply
Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253) 2)Taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay.or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay.or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or shadi kerne main jaldi ki jay.or ye adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Sir mera sawal ye hai k kya shadi se phly musht zani jaez hai ya nai. Aur islam ka is k baray main kya hukm hai.
Answer: 1)Mush zani karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) 2) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: hath sy sex krna gunah hai
Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253) 2)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah sai fail haram mai mubtila hota ho os pr wajib hai k shadi karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: kya hath se mani nikalna haram hai?
Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253) 2)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah sai fail haram mai mubtila hota ho os pr wajib hai k shadi karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Kiya must zani kerna haram hai?
Answer: Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)