QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Assalam walekum sir mujhe mere ek boori adat ko hatana hai toh plz mere madat karo mujhe mani girane ke aadat laga diye mere dost ne mujhe ab nahi choot rahi hai maine bahut koshish ki hai plz mere madat karo.

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407) 3)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: assalam-o-alikum! mujy ap sy ye pouchna ha k islam mai sperm (mani) ka hod nikalna haram ha ya ni??

Answer: Wssalam o alykum,G han haraam hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: sir kiya muth marna gunna ha

Answer: G han gunah e kabeera hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: mi ni kafi logun si suna hy ke muth marna galat hy. jum is topic par bat hoti hy tu kuch is ke haq mi hoty hein aur kuch is ke khilaf is ke karny si kaya gonah hota hy??aur iss sy bacha kasy jasakta hy

Answer: Ye Haraam o Guhnaah e Kabeera main se hai, or or jo shakhs ayse kamon men mubtala ho raha ho us per shadi krna wajib hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407). Note Or shadi ke baad is ki waja se kin kin kamzoriyoon ka samina karna pharta hai is ki malomaat ke liye Doctor se maloom karain.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: A-O-A.....jinab mera sawal yeh hai k...mey ik gunah se tobah kerta hoo per mey kuch hee din baad mey wahi gunah ker bethta hoon...TO IIIS SORAT MEY MERA PHIR TOBA KERNA SAHI HAI ????,.........

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Istemna ka kaffara toba krna hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 200,pg # 82) 3)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). 4)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: kya kisi larki ka apnay hath sa apnay private parts ko sirf sehlana zina hai? or is ki saza kya hai or toba k kya rastay hain?

Answer: Gee nahi isay zina nahi kehtay magr agr is had tak sehlaya jaey k discharge ho jae tu isay istimna kehtay hain aur ye haram or gunah e azeem hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah# 345,1553+( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah #30) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: Salam sir mera quesn ye hai ki mai 10 saal se mustjani kr rha hu ab kuch control hai. Lekin ab raat ko ehtilam ho jata hai. Aur mera sex tym b 15. 20 sec ka rh gya hai aur mai bahot dubla hu kamjzor b hu. In sab bato ka ilaj bataiye sir plz.

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Fiqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) . 2)Sonay say pehlay ba-wazoo halat mai surah e mea’rij(surah no. 70) ko aik martaba parhnay sai ehtilam sai mehfooz rehtay hain. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 322) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: assalaamu alaikum! mera sawaal ye hay k agar kunwari ladki muszthani karey toh shaadi baad kkoi masla hoga ! Agar che wo 10saal se muszthani karti ho toh

Answer: 1) Istemna krna (hand practice) haram hai chahay kisi bhi zariay se ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2) Sab sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: kya hand practise jaiz a?agr ni to kia wja aur kia gunah a

Answer: 1)Istemna krna (hand practice) haram hai chahaey kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Aksar akhkaam e sher,e ki sabab or illatain(reasons) or shriyat k bananay walay(yani khuda) ki nazar main qabil e aytebaar maslihat hum logo se poshida hay, or hamari aqlain on ko samajhnay se aajiz hain. Or wajib ye hay k illat or wajah per nazr kiay baghair wazeh hadees ki pairwi(following) karain.(Ref: Lumah#6,kitaab e meraas,nashir maktab e naveed e islam, pg#472). 3) Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: saalam!mera naam danish ali hy mein 3 saal sy hand practis kr raha ho ap is nijaat koe zariya bta dain mein is sy boht tang ho

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) 2)Sab se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhna waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)