Question: Mustjanani karne ke gunaah?aur iske gunaah pata hone ke baad bhi kare phir afsos ho to kya mafi mil sakti hai ?
Answer: Istimna gunahan e kabeera hai. Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 20-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Agar istimna ho gaya to iske gunah se bachne ka koi tareeka hai.jaise koi kaam karnachoga ya sacche dil se tauba
Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 13-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Mera ye question hai ke kya behan ke boobs dekhna sahi hai or kya usko soch ke masturbate krske hain?
Answer: Agar mehram k jism par lazzat sai nigah daali jaey tu ye haram hai. Istimna gunahan e kabira main sai aik hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) .Update on dated 23-10-2018. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)
Question: Kia kprey ke uper se rubbing krna masturbation mein shamil hy?
Answer: Istimna(Musturbation) (apne ikhtiyaar sai mani nikaalna chahay kapray k upar sai karey ) haram hai or gunah e kabira main sai hai hay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) [Updated on 12-Dec-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: How to avoid masturbation. I am just 19 now, and want to get rid of this gunnah e kabira.
Answer: Istimna gunahan e kabeera hai. Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). [Updated on 05-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Is masturbation gunah? Because it is not written clearly in Quran
Answer: ye masturbation is a gunah e kabeera. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30). Note: sorah mominoon(sorah#23) ki ayat# 7 main masturbation ki janib or igham bazi ki janib wazeh ishara maujood hay. Ye nahi kaha jaa sakta keh Quran main masturbation se mana nahi kia gaya hay. [Updated on 23-Apr-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Masht zani krna kesa hee
Answer: Musht zani haram hai gunahan e kabbera mai sai hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#1439,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) [Updated on 03-May-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Q1 :Kia kanwara larka kisi b larki (married , unmarried, divorced , widow) k sath sex chat kr sakta ? Q2 : mujhy roz muth (handpractice) ki addat ha is sy nijaat ka koi tarika batae please
Answer: Larka larki k baat cheet karne main agar fasaad ka khoof ho to jaiz nahi he agar baat cheet hidayat aur saleh kalam par mushtamil ho jab keh haram mein perhrnay ka kaoof bhi nah ho to koi haraj nahi (Ref: Ayatullah sistani, Mujtahid se poochay gae sawalat, hissa#3, ques# 139). Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gen or hamaisha yaad rakhain k allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray.(Ref: E-mail rcvd from a sistani d b). [Updated on 26-May-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Is masturbation allowed to avoid zina
Answer: Istimnaa or zina karna gunah e kabira hain. Gunah se bachne or jinsi taskeen ka sharee halaal rasta shadi karna hay. (Ref: www.sistani.org topic istimna). [Updated on 23-May-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Kya hand sex karsaktay hai agar bivi ghar per nai hai kuch dino say ya out off city hai
Answer: Hand practice( masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. ref ayat ullah seestani d b minhaajus saliheen part 1 mafhoom e maslah 30 eidition 1430 hij). [Updated on 01-Jul-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]