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Question: Agar kisi ghair shadi shuda mard ya aurat ko sex ka man kare to kya kare, kya apni khwahish mastubution se puri kar sakta h

Answer: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai. chahe shadi shuda ke sath kiya jaye ya kisi gair shadi shuda ke sath. Isi tarah Istimna(Musturbation) (apne ikhtiyaar sai mani nikaalna) ye bhi haraam hai or gunah e kabira mai sai hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Edition 1439 hij, Maslah #30). [Updated on 23-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: I am male and i masturbation since 15 year I want to but not stopping and i watch porn too much what i have to do

Answer: 1: Istimna(hand practice/masturbation) karna gunah e kabira hay. aur is ke liye tauba karna lazim hai. aur zaroori hai ke apne aap ko is gunah se bachaen. aur aap ke liye shadi karna wajib hai Q ke jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fel e haram(masturbation) me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar lay. (Ref: Minhajus Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #1, Edition 2009, Maslah #30). And (Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #2407). 2: Tauba:- Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahin dain gay. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, parhae waghaira.... or har os cheez se parhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray. or agar aap khud par qaabo nah rakh saktay hon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). 3: Gunahoon se bachne k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1) mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa len. 2) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh raha hay. 3) khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 4) Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc. (Ref: kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). [Updated on 14-Apr-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kia mard ka apnay haath say maza lena jaiz hay ya nahi

Answer: Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masael jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #1435, Mafhoom e Maslah #2296). [Updated on 31-Aug-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Maira lun darmian say taira hy or lambai 5 inch hye. Plz mujhy btaye k koi masla to nai hy. Is ka koi nuqsan . Lambai kam hy ya thk hy. Or tairy pan ka koi nuqsan to nai hy

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabar afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan Mardon main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k mardon k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zaroori hain: 1- Lamba(Large) or seedha(straight) ho, 2- Mota(thick) ho, 3- Sakht(hard) ho. Or aam tabeeb(doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul(penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani aurat ki sharamghah) ko mutaharrik kar sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharamghah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr(Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liye chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Lihaza penis ke chote or berhe hone se koe faraq nahin perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k terha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahin perhta Q k wo sharamghah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis ke mote or patle honay se bhi koe faraq nahin perhta, Q k aurat ki sharamghah ke naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne(Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharamghah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Lihaza aise tabeebon(doctors) se apne aap ko bachaya jaye}. (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia, writer doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi, wakeel e Ayatullah muntazari, part #1, pg #110-111). [Updated on 26-Aug-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: can a virgin girl masturbate privately

Answer: Istimna or khud lazzati (masturbate), haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. aur zaroori hai ke apne aap ko is gunah se bachaen. aur aap ke liye shadi karna wajib hai Q ke jo koi shadi na hone ki waja se fel e haram(masturbation) me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar lay. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masael jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #1435, Mafhoom e Maslah #2296). And (Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #2407). [Updated on 31-Jul-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mein sex addict ho chuka hoon or hath ka sahara leta hoon me apny ap ko kesy rokoon in kamon se

Answer: Istimnaa ( khud se mani kharij karna) gunah e kabira men se hai. Gunah se bachne or jinsi taskeen ka sharaei halaal rasta shadi karna hay. Q ke Jo shakhs shadi na hone ki wajah se haram kam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar lay. (Ref: www.sistani.org topic istimna). (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masal, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Maslah #2407). Is ke elawa Gunahon se bachnen k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye hen k 1. mout ki yaad ko dil main bassaen, 2. ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hai, 3. khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain, 6. Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (Ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). [Updated on 26-Jul-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mene ye poochna tha ke agar ek larki masturbate karey Lekin usska libas ganda na ho Magar wo apni sharam gah ma geela pan mehsoos karey Tu kiya uss per gushal e janabat farz ha?

Answer: 1) Istimna or khud lazzati(hand practice/masturbation) haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. aur is ke liye tauba karna lazim hai. aur zaroori hai ke apne aap ko is gunah se bachaen. aur aap ke liye shadi karna wajib hai Q ke jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fel e haram(masturbation) me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar lay. 2) Wo ratubat jo aurat say shehwat k saath Khaarij hoti hay Agar is Hadd tak ho kay usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aalooda kar day , jo aam tor par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intihaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga.ise tara ehteyaat e waajib ki bina per agar hijaan e shewat ki inteha tak nah bhi pouche magar paani itna ziyaada ho jitna puri razamandi k mouqe per kharij hota hai to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345) (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masael jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #1435, Mafhoom e Maslah #2296) + (Ref: Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #2407). [Updated on 12-Jul-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Salamun Alikum Qibla mujhe haath se mani nikalne ki aadat pd gaye he kuch amal bataye ki me ye gunah chood dun..

Answer: 1: (Istimna) (mani nikalne ) or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. or baaz riwayaat mai isay zina ki manzil par qaraar dia gaya hay. Istimnaa (mani nikalne ) k baad insaan per namaz or is jaise dosere ibadat k lie ghusl e janabat wajib hojata hai. Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le 2: Taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay. or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or is adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. .(Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262,Tauzeeh ul masael jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42 Maslah #344,356,2407). [Updated on 09-Jul-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Lrki ka khud hath se discharge hna uski pregnancy ko nuksan dta h kia

Answer: Istimna ( mani ko kharij karna ) or khud lazzati (hand practice/masturbation) haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. lekin pregnant aurat ke liye nuqsan de hai ya nahin is hawale doctor se ruju karen. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masael jaame, Edition #1435, Mafhoom e Maslah #2296) [Updated on 22-Apr-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: I m male... or agr hum hard kr len lekin mani nah nikley... to kya wo apni jaga se nikal jati ha??? Agr aisa ha to is se kya hota ha??

Answer: Answer : Agar uzotansol se cher char ki jaye or is ke nateeje men mani bahir aajaye ya kise bhe waja se ya begaire kise waja ke mani bahar aajaae to ye ghusl e janabat ka sabab bani gi yani mani nikalne ke bad namaz or is jese ibadaton ke liye ghusl e janabat karna pare ga. Albatta ye waazih rahe ke uzotansol ko itni had tak cher char karna ke mani nikal aye to ye Haram or gunah e kabira hai. 2 cheezo sai mujnib hota hai, un mai sai aik mani ka kharij hona hai laikin agar mani apni jigha sai harkat kray laikin kharij na ho to phir ghusl wajib nhi hota hai. Is k alawa pasina aanay sai ghusl wajib nhi hota ha. or mani kharij kea begaire istimna karne ki khoshish karna ehteyate wajib jaiz nahe .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ),(Ref: Tauzeeh ul Masail Jame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), maslah #422,2296,344-389) (sistani.org,arabi,topic :istimna,sawaal no :8) Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]