Question: Asalamalikum mujhe poochna tha ki agar masturbate ho jaaye half an hour ke baad naha le phir uske kitni der baad namaz padh sakte hai
Answer: Istimna or khud lazzati (masturbate), haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath ke zariye se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne ke zariye se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid ke zariye se ho. Jab koi shakhs kisi wajah se mujnib ho jaye aur agar wo ghusl e janabat kar lay to wo pak ho jata hai aur jab bhi namaz ka waqt ho jaye us waqt namaz, ya deegar ibadat bhi anjam de sakta hai. Aur zaroori hai ke apne aap ko is gunah se bachaen. Aur aap ke liye shadi karna wajib hai Q ke jo koi shadi na hone ki wajah se fel e haram (masturbation) me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar lay.(Ref: Tauzeeh ul masael jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #1435, Maslah #2296)+Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #356,2407). [Updated on 10-Aug-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Me ek ladka ho Bachpan me ne gand marway he ab me shade ki 2 sall hoge mera sprem test sahe ha kia mere bacha hosakta he
Answer: is silsele docter se raabta kare . [Updated on 08-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Asalam u Alaikum mje apse ye puchna ha k bv ki tasaweer dkhty howe mere mani kharij hugye tu kia iska gunah ha mjpy ya nai or agr aurat khud apne hth se khud ungli krti ho ye halal ha ya haram
Answer: 1: Wo ratoobat jo kabhi kabhi shehwat(sex) ubharne pr mard k aalaa-e-tanasul se kharij hoti hai use Mazzi kehte hen or wo paak hai. aur is se koi gunah nahin hoga. 2: Aurat ka ye kaam karna jaiz nahin hai Q ke ye Istimna or khud lazzati hai aur Istimna or khud lazzati haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai. Han Abatta Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se mass kar sakhtay hein laikin jism k hissay k alawa koe koe aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi ker saktay or shohar ka biwi ki sharamgaah main ungli daal ker mani nikaalna jaiz hay. lekin aurat ka apni ungli apni sharamgah men daal kar mani nikalna jaiz nahin hai. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #70. + Jadeed fiqhi masail, maslah #406, pg #236). [Updated on 30-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mera Sawal Yah ha ka Musht Zani ka bad usski Recovery kesa krta hain or kitna time bd ho jati ha
Answer: Is marz ka ilaaj maujood hai, jinsi ilaj k liay is link per click karain: johar homeo care – Johar Homeo Clinic. https://joharhomeoclinic.com/johar-homeo-care/ . [Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mera sawal yah ha ka Hm jawan hain jawani ka umer mei hamra knsa aisa amal hoga jis sa aga bacha na hna ka msla ho Example Musht Zani , Shermgah ka terha pan Iski tafsil b bta deyain
Answer: Masturbation, Istimna ya hand practice (kisi bhi tariqe se mani kharij) karna ye ek haram kam hai. Or gunah_e_kabeera hai. Or medical point of view se bhi is k nihayat bure nataaij paye jate hen. (Ref: Jadeed fiqhi Masaail, Aqai Sistani(d.b), pg #253, Maslah #462. + Minhaj ul Saliheen, Part #1, Maslah #30).Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) MASTURBATION K NUQSANAAT: Khud lazzati(hand practice ) karny ki adat ko foran tark kar dain kiyun ky ziyada tar afrad jo musht zani karty rahy hain mustaqbil main namardagi ka shikar ho jaty hain. Ziyada musht zani karny waly mardon main, sar ka dard, kamar ka dard, ankhon k gird halky parna, is k ilawa shadi k baad surt e anzaal jesy masail paida ho jaty hain. Mardana kamzori, azu e tanasul ka tehrapan, azu e tanasul ka chota reh jana, azu e tanasul ka patla reh jana, waghera yeh sab khud lazzati k asraat hain. Mardon main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k mardon k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zaroori hain: 1- Lamba(Large) or seedha(straight) ho, 2- Mota(thick) ho, 3- Sakht(hard) ho. Or aam tabeeb(doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul(penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani aurat ki sharamghah) ko mutaharrik kar sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharamghah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr(Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liye chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Lihaza penis ke chote or berhe hone se koe faraq nahin perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k terha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahin perhta Q k wo sharamghah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis ke mote or patle honay se bhi koe faraq nahin perhta, Q k aurat ki sharamghah ke naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne(Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharamghah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia, writer doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi, wakeel e Ayatullah muntazari, part #1, pg #110-111). [Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mera nafs rat ko khara hojata hai or main thora sa hilata hoan tu andar se minni nikal ata hai or mera kapra bhi napak hajata hain tu ab kya karon main
Answer: Is surat me aap aik dafa ghusl e janabat kar len Q ke namaz or is jesi ibadaton ke liye ghusl e janabat karna wajib hota hai or libaas ko bhi pak karna hoga. Albatta aap ko chand fiqhi masail ki taraf mutawajjuh kiya jata hai keh jin ki aap ko zaroorat hai. aur wo ye hain ke 1: Istimna or khud lazzati(hand practice/masturbation) haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. 2: Jo koi bhi shadi na karne ki wajah sai haram fel e haram(masturbation) mai mubtila hota ho tu us par wajib hai k shaadi kar lay. 3: Is gunah ke liye tauba karna lazim hai. aur zaroori hai ke apne aap ko is gunah se bachaen. sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gi, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahi hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahi hain. Aap koshish karain ke khud ko khuch mufeed kamon main masroof ker lain jaisay sport, parhai ghar ke kaam kaj waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar kare. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa sakti hon to roza rakhain Q ke roza ghunahon k muqabilay main dhaal ka kaam karta hai. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #1435, Maslah #2296. + Tauzeeh ul masail urdu, edition #42, maslah #344,356,2407. + (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). [Updated on 27-Aug-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: I had done masturbation a lot. Now I am shameful. How to do Tauba to erase all my sins?
Answer: 1: Istimna or khud lazzati(hand practice/masturbation) haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. 2: Jo koi bhi shadi na karne ki wajah sai haram fel e haram(masturbation) mai mubtila hota ho tu us par wajib hai k shaadi kar lay. 3: Lazim hai ke is gunah ke liye tauba ki jaye ai. aur zaroori hai ke apne aap ko is gunah se bachaen. sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gi, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahi hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahi hain. Aap koshish karain ke khud ko khuch mufeed kamon main masroof ker lain jaisay sport, parhai ghar ke kaam kaj waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar kare. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa sakti hon to roza rakhain Q ke roza ghunahon k muqabilay main dhaal ka kaam karta hai. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masael Jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #1435, Maslah #2296. + Tauzeeh ul masail, edition #42, maslah #2407. + (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). [Updated on 08-Sep-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: kiya oral sex krna jaiz ha agr bivi gyi hui ho or ghr na aa rhi ho to oral sex yani hand job kr sakte ?? bivi kay naraz ki sorat ma bhi kr saktay oral sex ?
Answer: istimna ( mani nikaalna ) or khud lazzati (hand job/masturbation) karna Haram or Gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath ke zariye ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masael Jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #1435, Maslah #2296). Note:aap kise trah Apne biwi ko Apne Ghar le ke aaye or us se ijdewaje talluqaat qaim kare. [Updated on 07-Nov-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Assalamualaikum kya Umrah krny k lye kisi or ka Istimal shuda Ahram band kr umrah kr sakty han.
Answer: Jee han, Istimaal shuda ahram bandh kar umrah kar sakte hain, Bas maila nahin hona chahiye Q ke maile kapre ka ahraam bandhna markooh hai, lekin is surat me bhi umrah sahi ho jaye ga. (Ref: Manasik e Hajj Urdu, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), pg #344). [Updated on 08-Nov-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Muth marny sa bnda motha O tha hai ya nai please jawab dena lazmi
Answer: istimna (najaiz tareqe se Apne mani nikaalna ) haram he or gunah he. gunah se bachne or jinsi taskeen ka sharee rasta sirf shadi he. shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . Note: Istimna k bohot se jismani or rohani nuqsanaat hain jin main se aik ye bhi hay k insan hambistari k waqt bohot jaldi farigh(dischage) hojata hay. Or baaz auqaat tu hambistari ko shuru kerne se pehle hi discharge ho jata hay or bivi se shamindagi ka saamna kerna perhta hay. (Ref : www.sistani.org. topic:istimna q.10,Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) [Updated on 30-Dec-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]