Question: kia apne husband ko aisee mails likhna jis se usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho wo likh kar bhaijna or usko web cam par aisa kuch dikhana jaiz hai jis se ke usko jinsi sukoon hasil ho.
Answer: Jee han jaiz hai). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: assalamualaikum main ne ek ladki ke saath sex kiya aur ab mein us ke saath shaadi karna chahata hoon uske baare mujhe kuch bataiye
Answer: Agar kohe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shoar ho maker iddat me na ho to ehteyate wajib ki bina per us aurat k tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahe kar sakta. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364)). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: As salam alaykum hambistari ki dua bataye please
Answer: jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay,Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 ,5). Update on dated 20-11-2015. Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: kia main apni bevi ko apna uzwa-e-khas suck karwa sakta hoon or kia main apni bevi ko back side say fuck kar sakta hoon, is ka jawab zaroor dain kyonka is door kay hisab say or hamary moashary ko is cheez ke zaroorat paregi.
Answer: 1) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15)2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 20-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: i am newly married. i want to know about "hum bistar ki dua" and more about married life.kindly help me out.
Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh(na-pasandeedah) hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan). (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 , 5). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: salam,sir mera question ye hai k kia wife k sath back side se sex krne se nikah toot jata hai.
Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.Aur is sai nikah batil nhi hota hai.(ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2335) .Update on dated 20-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: apne biwi ko penis mu me desakte?
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice)) kar sakti hai.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) .Update on dated 29-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: shadi ki raat sex karna zaruri hai? yani valima nahi hoga suna maine
Answer: Shab e zafaf se pehlay ya bad me valima karna mustahab he. Islam ne 5 maqamaat per valima kerna mustahab qaraar diya hay jin main se aik ye valima bhi hay.valimay se pehlay jima kerna zarori nahi hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4, 388). .Update on dated 29-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: biwi ki back sai hambistri krna or usay mouh may dena or biwi ki mouh sa karna galat hay ya sahi please jawab jal dain thanks
Answer: 1)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B.) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). 2)Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Sistani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15).Update on dated 20-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: i have done mutta with a virgin girl without her fathers permission it is a sin?and what is its kafaaraa?
Answer: kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. Jis jagha per aurat k lie baab se ijazat lena zarori ho agar aurat baab se ijazat na le to nikah batil hai laikin agar aurat ka waalid baad me ijazat de de to nikah sahe hogha.Sahe nikah k bagair hambistri krna haram hai. q k wo zina ho jae ga aur zina gunah e kabeera mai shumar hota hai). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342) ,(sistani.org,arbi,oliyahe aaq,que:1), (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).