Question: Meray Aik dost jo kah Married hai, aur us nay Zana kiya hai, Ab wo apnay kiya per sharminda hai, ab us ka lia kiya kafara dena ho ga?
Answer: Toba karain. 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 3)ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: kya ladka ladki anal sex karne k baad nikah kar hai unka nikah wajib hai .............plz tell me
Answer: 1)Ethiat e wajib he k insane is aurat se is k toba karnay se pahle nikah na karay jis k sath is na zina kia ho . (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 403 pg # 235) 2)Toba karein Parwar digaar ne quran me waadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiay. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: zina karna k bad insan sacha dil sa toba kar la to kia bad ma b kaffara ada karna ho ga aur allah talah naraz hon gay aur 100 korhay mara jain gay?plz reply me
Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) Zina bil jabr mai zaani mehr e misl ka zamin hay.yani zani per mehr e misl daina wajib hay.( http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=930 )
Question: me kiya karo jis se mujhe mere gunah ki bakhsish mil saky, me kis sy mohabat karta tha ussy meny ghalt kaam kiya hai , is i saza kiya hai or is se bachne k liye kiya kiya jae???
Answer: Zina karna gunah_e_kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhaj_us_Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30) use sache dil se toba karni chahiye. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kiya hai k wo toba karne walon ki toba ko qabool karta hai.Aysa hargiz nahi ho sakhta k wo apne wade per amal na kare. (Ref : website ayatollah sistani (d.b). ques # 1 , toba) Jo shakhs shadi na krne ki wajah se haram kaam men mubtila hota ho us pr wajib hai k shadi kare.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31)
Question: jab insan py shawat tari ho jaye to insan apne ap py qaboo na pa sake to apne hath sy sharam gah sy shawat puri kare islam is kam ko jaiz qarar deta hai ya nai plz zaroor jawab dain
Answer: Miyan biwi k elawa kise bhi qism k jinse lazzat ko hasil karna gunah kabeera me se hai. (Ref : Minhaj-us-salaheen #1 aqa sistani masla#30) Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai. (Ref : Jaded fiqhi Masail aqa sistani pg # 253, masla #462) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: assalam o alaikum sir main bahut pareshanhoon maine 3 baar tawaayef ke sath zina kiya aur kayi baar sharab bhi pee. maine sache dil se tauba kar liya hai ab kabhi nahi karunga,duaa karne ka tareeka bateyen?
Answer: 1)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) 2) Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e tehreem surah no 66 ki tilawat karay ga to Khuda osay toba tun nusooh ki tawfeeq ata farmaye ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) S/no:6457
Question: AssalamOAlaikum.mera ap se sawal he k agar 1 marad zani ho ga to us ki biwi b zani ho gi or agar 1 larki zani ho to kia us ka shohar b zani ho ga
Answer: ye koi qanoon e shariyat nahi, balke ishara hai ke zaniya orat zani or mushrik ko bura nahi samjti, jabke momina ke dil ko zani o mushrik nahi bhate(yani ache nahi lgte) (Ref : Anwaar_ul_Quraan, Allama Zeeshan hayder jawwadi).
Question: Kia mein apni girlfriend ko kiss kr sakta ho ?
Answer: Jaiz nahi, shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: ma nai zindagi ma zana buhat kia hai.maufi mangna chahta ho allah sa. or mujhay job nahi mil rahi kitnay years sa.ma buhat paraishan hoo.or ma samjhta hoo ya sab mairay zana ki wjah sa ho raha hai.plz mujhay en 2 masloo ka haal bata dai
Answer: Zina karna gunah_e_kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhaj_us_Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30) apko sache dil se toba karni chahiye. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kiya hai k wo toba karne walon ki toba ko qabool karta hai.Aysa hargiz nahi ho sakhta k wo apne wade per amal na kare. (Ref : website ayatollah sistani (d.b). ques # 1 , toba) Jo shakhs shadi na krne ki wajah se haram kaam men mubtila hota ho us pr wajib hai k shadi kare. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31) 1)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) 2) Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e tehreem surah no 66 ki tilawat karay ga to Khuda osay toba tun nusooh ki tawfeeq ata farmaye ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
Question: mera apni sagi bahen se 3 SAAL SE NAJAYAZ RISTAH HAI.KYA YEH SAHI HAI?KYON KE BAHEN PAR PAHELA HAQ USKE BHAI KA HOTA HAI.
Answer: Shohar or biwi k ilawa kise or tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah-e-kabira hai. Jo shaks shadi na kerne ki wajah se haram kam men mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)