QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Halat haiz ma Mera husband na muja3 talak de Kiya ya talak hue ya nahi?

Answer: (Note: Is website par fiqh e jafferiya (shia mazhab) ke mutabiq jawabat diye jatay hain). Fiqh e jafferiya (shia mazhab) ke mutabiq, Haiz ya nifaas ki halat me talaq sahi nahin hoti. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b) edition #42, maslah #2462 to 2472). [Updated on 16-Feb-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Is it permissible to have sex with other women when you are alao in mutah with one girl as well

Answer: Shohar biwi ke alawa kisi dosre insan se jismani talluq rakhna Haram aur ghunah e kabira hai. (Ref: Minhaj-us-Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, edition #1443, maslah #30). [Updated on 06-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Asslam o alaikum g Mera swal hai orat ko kesy farig Kiya jae jis sai wo kush ho jae us ko be Maza ay bohat

Answer: Agar hambistri (intercourse) se pehle darj zel baton ka khayal rakha jaye to mard aur aurat dono aik dusre se mutmaen (satisfied) hon gay. 1: Shohar aur biwi aik dusre ke badan ke kisi bhi hissay ko badan ke kisi bhi hissay se mass (touch) kar sakhte hain lekin jism ke hissay ke alawa koi aur cheez sharamghah main ehtiyaat ki bina par dakhil nahin kar sakta or biwi ki sharamghah me ungli daal kar mani nikaalna jaiz hai. yani shohar apni biwi ki jinsi feelings ko poora karne ke liye badan ke kisi bhi hissay (parts of body) ko istemal kar sakta hai. 2: Mustahabaat e jima main ye milta hay ke koi bhi shakhs apni biwi se fauran jima nah karay balkeh pehlay orgasm yani masaas chaati, raan waghaira ko haath se masalna, sehlana, chairh, chaarh or hansi mazaaq karay. is baat ko maahireen e jinsiyaat ne bhi tasleem kiya hay, in ki nazar main fauran jima karne par mard ki mani jaldi se kharij ho jati hai aur is surat main mard ki khahish to poori ho jati hay lekin aurat ki khahish poori nahin ho paati, jis ki wajah se aurat apne mard se nafrat karne lagti hay shayad isi liye deen e fitrat mazhab e islam ne orgasm yani masaas, bosah baazi(kissing), chairh chaarh, hansi mazaaq, piyaar o muhabbat ki batain karne ko mustahab qaraar diya, taake aurat mazkorah amal se jima ke liye poori tarah aamadah ho jaaye or jab is se jima kiya jaaye to wo bhi mard ki tarah se poori tarah jinsi tasalli hasil kar sakay shayad isi liye Rasool khuda(s.a.w.w) ne irshad farmaya ke jo shakhs apni aurat se jima karay to wo murgh (cock) ki tarah us ke paas nah jaaye balkeh pehlay masaas, orgasm or dast baazi badan pe haath phairna or khush tabaei (dil lagi, hansi mazaq) karay is ke baad jima karay. {ref: tehzibul islam, pg #109}. Aur shayad yehi wajah hay ke jis waqt imam jaffer sadiq(a.s) se kisi ne daryaaft kiya ke agar koi shakhs haath ya ungli se apni zauja ya kaneez ki sharamghaah ke saath baazi karay (playing) to kaisa hay Aap (a.s) ne farmaya khuch muzaiqa nahin (yani koi haraj nahin) lekin ajzaay badan (parts of body) ke alawa aur koi cheez is maqam main dakhil nah karay, {ref: tehzibul islam, pg #231}. yani aurat ko jima ke liye poori tarah aamada karne yani garam karne ke liye mard, aurat ki sharamghaah main ungli ya jism ke kisi bhi uzu (part) se chairh chaarh kar sakta hay taake aurat or mard dono ko mukammal jinsi kaif o lazzat hasil ho sake. 3: Jima se pehlay masaas (orgasm) ke baad jab jima shuru kiya jaye to jab jima ke dauran aurat ke munzil hone (discharge) ke bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baitabana harakaat karay, mard se chumtay, liptay, apne hathon ya taangon se mard ko kas kar dabaaye tab mard bhi jaldi jaldi dukhool (inserting of penis) or ikhraaj (emiting of penis) kar ke farigh ho jaaye, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho aur wo apne haathon ya taangon se mard ko kass ke daba rahi ho taake mard alag nah ho to mard ko chahiye ke is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul (penis) ko aurat ki sahramghaah se bahir nah nikalay jab tak ke aurat munzil nah ho jaaye, phir khuch dair baad (penis) ko nikaal kar mard aahistagi se aurat se alag ho jaaye. (Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi Masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Maslah #406, pg #236. + Tauzeeh ul Masail Jaame, Part #4, Maslah #261. + link; http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ). + Islam or jinsiyaat, muallif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg #145,146,151,152). [Updated on 11-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Jab biwi peshab karne jati hai to us dauran uske sharamgah ko dekh sakte hai and usse khel sakte hai?

Answer: Jee han, ye kam jaiz hain Q ke mian, biwi aik dosre ke liye poori tarah se mehram (halal) hain. (Ref: sistani.org urdu, chapter humbistri, sawal #1). [Updated on 21-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar mubashrat bache ke liye nahi karne only foreplay kare to kaun se dua and tashbih pardh sakte hai? Foreplay ke dauran koi tashbih pardh sakte hai?

Answer: Jima (mubashrat) ke waqt wuzu karna, bismillah parhna, aur koi sa bhi zikr ilahi karna mustahab hai. (Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #3, edition #1443 hij, maslah #5). [Updated on 21-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kya foreplay me biwi ko put (munh ke bal leta ker) uske dono buttocks ke darmiyan bagair dakhul ke ungliyon se khel sakte hai?

Answer: Jee han, Q ke mian, biwi aik dosre ke liye poori tarah se mehram (halal) hain. (Ref: sistani.org urdu, chapter humbistri, sawal #1). [Updated on 21-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mera sawal hai ki Kya biwi ko put (munh ke bal leta ker) uske dono buttocks se bagair dakhul ke foreplay nafa lene ke Kya hadood hai? Kya use munh me le and chat sakte hai?

Answer: 1: Mian, biwi aik dosre ke liye poori tarah se mehram hain laikin gair mamoli lazzatun ke liye ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par mian, biwi ka razi hona lazim hay. 2: Oral sex yani aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. agar halaq me chali jaye to halaq najis ho jaye ga. 3: Agar monh ka androni hissa najis ho jaey tu nijasat k door ho janay se monh paak ho jaata hay or paani se paak karne ki bhi zarorat nahin hoti. (Ref: sistani.org urdu, chapter humbistri, sawal #1. + Istiftaat I-2,I-15). + Tauzeeh ul masail jaame, Edition #1435 hijri, Mafhoom e Maslah #233). [Updated on 21-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: My question is that if the wife is pregnant and for how long the wife should refrain from intercourse

Answer: Agar biwi hamila ho jaye to doctor ki hidayat ke mutabiq hambistari kar sakte hain. lekin jin surton me doctor mana kare to wahan ehtiyat karni chahiye. Biwi ke sath jima (intercourse) ke waqt Bismillah parhna, isi tarah wuzu karna to mustahab bhi hai, khaas taur par jab biwi hamila ho. (Note: Dauraan e hamal jima (sex) karte waqt is baat ka zaroor khayaal rakha jaye ke jima ke waqt biwi ke pait par shohar apne jism ka wazan nah daalay, is se bache ko nuqsaan puhunch sakta hai. aam taur par doctor hazraat 8th mahinay se jima karne se mana karte hain. lekin ye har aurat ki jismani kaifiyaat or taaqat par munhasir (depend) hota hai. hum aap se guzarish kartay hain ke aap is silsilay main doctor se ruju karain or bache ko nuqsan puhuchne wali cheezon se parhaiz karain). (Ref: Minhaaj us Salaheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #3, maslah #5) [Updated on 27-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mera sawal hai ke, Agar mubashrat(foreplay) ke starting me Bismillah pardhan bhool jate hai to, foreplay ke darmiyan biwi ke hasas hisso ke massage ke time or inko dekhne ke time Bismillah pardh sakte hai?

Answer: Jee, parh sakte hain. (Ref: Minhaaj us Salaheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #3, maslah #5) [Updated on 02-Apr-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agr apka shohar apko kahy g muje haiz kii surat hal batain yanii usko fikr ho or wo humy kahy g muje uski surat hal dikhao to kiaa biwi ko wo surat hal apny shohar ko dikhanii chaiye

Answer: Jee, dikha sakti hai Q ke miyan, biwi aik doosre ka poora badan dekh sakte hain. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2400). [Updated on 02-Apr-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]