QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: mia bivi ke larai jhagra khatam krny k leye kia keya jay or be ouladi k leye

Answer: 1: Aik shadi shuda zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye zaroori hai hai ke aik doosre ki chhoti chhoti baaton ko nazar andaz kiya jaye, aik doosre ke sharaei huqooq ka khayal rakhte hue aik doosre ki ghalation se darguzar kiya jaye, aur is baat ki koshish ki jaye ke zindagi ki bunyad piyar o muhabat par ho. 2. Agar miyan, biwi me ikhtilaf ho gaya ho to dono me se aik awal o aakhir 11 bar salawat ke saath ba-wazu qibla rukh musallay par baith kar 100 martaba darj zail kalimat ka wird karen to haftay bhar me haalaat sazgar ho kar daimi muhabbat me tabdeel ho jain gay. (Bismillah hirrahmanir raheem bismillah hil waasiea jalla jalala hoo) 3: Miyan, biwi me Muhabbat paida karne ke liye yaa latifo yaa wadoodo (یَا لَطِیْفُ یَا وَدُوْدُ) 213 martaba pاrha jaye. 4: Mian, biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k liye har namaz ke bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se dono me bemisal mohabbat qaim ho jaye gi. 5: Sheikh bihaei farmatay hein ke mandarjah zail nuskhah main ne 900 aurtoon ke liye tajweez kiya aur sab ki sab sahib e aulaad ho gayen aur wo nuskha ye hai: Surah e raad(الرعد), surah #13, ayat #31 ko khol kr likhen. وَلَوْ أَنَّ قُرْآنًا سُيِّرَتْ بِهِ الْجِبَالُ أَوْ قُطِّعَتْ بِهِ الْأَرْضُ أَوْ كُلِّمَ بِهِ الْمَوْتَىٰ بَل لِّلَّهِ الْأَمْرُ جَمِيعًا أَفَلَمْ يَيْأَسِ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا أَن لَّوْ يَشَاءُ اللَّهُ لَهَدَى النَّاسَ جَمِيعًا وَلَا يَزَالُ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا تُصِيبُهُم بِمَا صَنَعُوا قَارِعَةٌ أَوْ تَحُلُّ قَرِيبًا مِّن دَارِهِمْ حَتَّىٰ يَأْتِيَ وَعْدُ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُخْلِفُ الْمِيعَادَ Is ayat ko maqta yani torh torh kar likhen maslan (و ل و ا ن ق ر آ ن) is tarah poori ayat lakhen phir is ko lifafay main band kar ke aurat apnay pehlo ke sath bandh lay, InshAllah jald sahib e aulad ho jaye gi. 6: Hamila honay ke liy rehaan ke 7 pattoo (leaves) par surah mominoon surah #23 ki ayat #14 ko likhen aur aik aik kar ke 7 martaba khaa lain is tarah 7 din karen InshAllah hamal qaim ho ga. (Ref: Link, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01744/ ). + Naway saliheen pg #404. + Naeemul amal, pg #311. + Dunya o akhirat ki 100 pareshaniyon ka hal, pg #94. + Aasar e ahlbait(a.s) pg #188). [Updated on 27-Nov-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kia biwi shohr k khny p vedio call p hath sa sax kr skti hy

Answer: Jee nahin, Nahin kar sakti Q ke sharamghah me koi cheez ya ungli daakhil karna ya masturbation, Istimna ya hand practice (ya kisi bhi tariqe se mani kharij) karna, Haram hai or jaiz nahin hai. (Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi Masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), maslah #406, pg #236. + Minhaj ul Saliheen, Part #1, Maslah #30). [Updated on 11-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Wife k Sath jima (hambistri) k wAkt baten kr sakty hain

Answer: Kar sakte hain lekin jima ke waqt baten karna makrooh hai. (Ref: Minhajus Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #3, pg #18, maslah #5). [Updated on 16-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kesy pata chaly ga k Bivi app ky haq me behter hy ya ni kia is ka koi wazifa ya dua hy . kiu k boaht sy MIA double soch me rehty hain k pata ni in ki bivi in ky sath mukhlis hy ya ni

Answer: Shadi se pehle shih tarah tehqeeq karli jae phr bhi agr dil mutmain na rha ho to istekhara krlia jae.. Is se bht zyada mamlaat clear hojate hai .. Shadi k baad iss tarah se badzan hona munasib nhi hai jb tk Yaqeen na ajae k apki biwi ap se mukhlis nh hai yh ilzaam bhi na lagaya jae.. Parwardigar e Aalam apki toufeeqaat me izafa farmae [Updated on 01-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mjhy yeh btaden kya men apny shohar ky penis sy vagina rub krky discharge hoskti ya nhi? Is barey men islami ahkam kya h

Answer: Shohar aur biwi apnay badan ke kisi bhi hissay ko doosray ke badan ke kisi bhi hissay se chhoo sakhtay hein. lekin jism ke hissay ke alawa koi aur cheez sharamghaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil ya rub nahin kar saktay. aur shohar ka biwi ki sharamghah main ungli daal kar mani nikaalna jaiz hay. (Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), maslah #406, pg #236). [Updated on 23-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agr shohar bv ak dusre sy dor ho kia miya bv apni khwish mut mr k puri kr skty miya bv ki raza mndi sy?

Answer: Jee nahin, aisa nahin kar sakte Q ke Istimna ya hand practice (ya kisi bhi tariqe se mani kharij) karna, Haram aur ghunah e kabira hai. (Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi Masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), maslah #406, pg #236. + Minhaj ul Saliheen, Part #1, Maslah #30). Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Agha Seestani,maslah #2382). 2)Agar koe biwi 4 mahinay tak sabar na kar sakhti ho aur os k haram me parhnay ka khof ho aur jab k zouja haram me mubtila na hoe ho to ethiate wajib ki bina per 4 mahinay se pehlay jaldi karay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # masla # 341) [Updated on 22-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Asalam_o_alikum Kia Islam main biwi ki ijazat k bina sex krna jaaiz hai or biwi mana krae or zabardast krni par Islam kia kheta hai plz answers

Answer: Biwi ke liye zaroori or wajib hai ke jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatain (humbistri wagera) haasil karna chahay to shohar ki khuwahish poori kare aur sharaei uzr(reason periods e.t.c..) ke baghair biwi, apne shohar ko hambistari se nahin rok sakti. balke biwi ka apne shohar ko hambistri se mana karna Haram hai. Haan shohar ki razamandi se taakheer (late) karna jaiz hai. Aur agar biwi humbistari aur jinsi lazzaton ke silsile me shohar ki khawaish poori nah kare to shohar roti, kapre aur makan ka zimadar nahin hai agarche wo shohar ke pas hi reh rahi ho. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2376). [Updated on 25-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kya pecha sa karna gunah ha?

Answer: 1: Shohar or Biwi aik dosre ke liye poori tarah se mehram (yani halal) hain lekin ghair mamoli lazzatun ke liye ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par biwi ka raazi hona lazim hai. 2: Biwi ke peechay ke maqam (maqam e pakhana) main hambistari karna biwi ke raazi nah hone ki surat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina par Haram (ghunah) hai, aur agar biwi raazi ho to jaiz hai lekin shadeed makrooh hai. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul Masail Jaame[farsi], Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #4, maslah #259,261. + sistani.org urdu, chapter humbistri, sawal #1). [Updated on 25-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Aga sistani ke nazdeeq dotted/ribbed condoms use karna jaaiz hai?

Answer: Mard ke liye jaiz hai ke wo family planning ke liye condom (chahe koi sa bhi ho) ya is tarah ke cover istemaal kare lekin ehtiyaat e wajib ye hai ke istemaal karne se pehle apni biwi se ijazat lay. warna wo ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par ghunahgar ho ga. Han albatta condom ya is tarah ke cover istemaal kiye bager aur biwi ki ijazat ke bager mani ka biwi ki sharamgah se bahir inzaal karna jaiz hai lekin agar biwi raazi nah ho to makrooh hai. (Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), maslah #465, pg #254. + Minhaj us Saliheen, Part #3, Edition #1443 hijri, maslah #10). [Updated on 31-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Salam agha Mera sawal ye he k wife agar kahe k mujhe sex ki need nhi he so plz nahii karna mujhe or naraz hojae pas aane pe to kiya Karen ??

Answer: Ek zouja k lie yh jaiz nahi hai k vo baghair kisi shari uzr k apne shohar ko sex se mana kre albatta ap bhi gour krein k kahi koi wajib haq aisa to nh jo ap se chut rha ho. (Reff: Touzih ul Masail Agha Sistani d.b, 39th Edition, Daimi Aqd k ehkam Masla No. 2376) [Updated on 07-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]