Question: Aslam-o-Alaikum.Mera sawal yeh hai ke meri shadi ko 8 saal ho gey hain abi biwi ki sharamga ko choosa hai plz mujy hadith ke mutabik bataien ke yeh jaiz hai ya nai plz advise me true. Shukriya.
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice)) kar sakti hai.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: kya bivi ke dhoodh per apne penis ka ratobat giraya ja sakta hai............2nd q is...jab mian bivi sex kerte hai to agai shohar khud kere or peeche machine se ker sakta hai
Answer: 1) shohar aur biwi danoo apne badan k kisi bhi hissa ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissa se mus kar sakhte hein.(ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) 2) Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nahei honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 3)biwi ki sharamgaah main apnay badan k hissay k ilawa koe cheez dakhil kerna ehtiyaat ki bina per haram hay.(Sistani(d.b),Rcvd Email,Dated:16.08.10). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: A O AKIYA BIVI KI PUSSY KO SUCK KAR SAKTE AUR WOH MERE PENIS KO SUCK KAR SATI HAI AUR KIS HAD TAK
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice)) kar sakti hai.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: kia suhagraat ko condom istimal karna jaiz hai ya nahi
Answer: Merd k liay jaiz hay k wo condam istemaal karay laikin ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k is k istemaal kernay say pehlay apni b.v say ijazat lay lay. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded fiqhi masail, maslah # 465) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: what about u say oral sex. islam allows oral sex
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice)) kar sakti hai.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: SAlam mera sawal ya ha ..kay husbend wife kay sath haram jaga per hum bistery kary kia issay talaq hojati ha ..ya ya gunah hota ha .............?
Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna sakht makrooh hay.Aur is se nikah nahi toothta. (ref: Ayatullah khumani(D.B) Tauzee hul masail, maslah#) hul masa’il, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: mera sawal yeh hay kay sunnat k mutabit hambistri ki dua na par sakay ya bhool jai, tho is say nukah haram tho nahee ho ga?
Answer: 1)shadi ki pehli raat jo dua perhi jati hay wo mustahab hay wajib nahi hay.is dua k nah perhnay say nikah batil nahi hota(Sistani(d.b),Mihajus saliheen, maslah#4 ). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: agar hamari kisi se mangni ho jay or hum us k sath gumna phirna chahy ya kiss kar le to kia gunnah hia or kuch na karain sirf hath pakrain ya kiss kar le to..
Answer: Larhka larhki ka nikah say pehlay sex karna haram hay.inka aik dosray ko shohar or biwi samjhnay say sex jaiz nahi hojata. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded fiqhi masail, maslah #439) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: suhag raat ko kis trah bivi se humbistari kis trah krni chahey islam k mutabiq
Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #3,maslah #5) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: kia islam mai pichy ki tarf sy sex krny sy nikha khatm hogata hai?
Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nahi honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.or is amal say nikah baatil nahi hota. (ref : tauzeeh e ul masayl ayat ullaha sistani (d.b.) masla # 67 , 2335) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).