QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: shadi ki raat kay ehkaam kya hain. kya ek shohar apni biwi ko bina kapray (clothes) dekh sakta hai. during a night is it compulsory to have gusal after every time one performs sex?

Answer: 1-Biwi aur shohar k liay apni sharamghao ko aik dosere se chopaana laazim nahi hai. 2-phele jitni martaba sex karna chae karsakte hai aur aaghir me namaaz se phele srif aik martaba ghusal kafi hai. (Ref: sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah#53,344 , 356). 3-Aik dafa jima karnay k bad dubara jima karnay k lie ghusl k bagair jima karna jaiz he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5). .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: agar koe shaks apne beve ke sat ghaer sharee kam karta hay to us ka nikkah per koe asar parta hay masalan beve se agee ke baje peche se kare to plese send me the right answer

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67).Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kya gharelu dawa se apne penis ko lamba aur mota kiya ja sakta hai,. Ager ha to wo kaise Q ki mera penis chota aur patla hai ,. Plz koi rasta btaye ise mota aur lamba karne ka,.

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k hay harm hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ).Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: assalamualaikum mera sawaal yeh hai ke kya condom kagane se gunaah nahi hoga

Answer: Ehtiyate wajib ya hai k ( comdom ) istemal karne se phele shoar apne biwi se ijazat lai .(aqa sistani jaded fiqhe masail ,masla 465,pg # 254).Update on dated 20-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: mera question ye hai ki engagement ke bad bi agar mard kisi dusri ladki se najayaz samband rakhe to kya ye galat hai aur galat hai to kya uske mangetar ko kya karna chahiye plz iska answer jaldi bhejiye alhafiz

Answer: Aurat or os k wali(baap/dada)ke liay behter hai k on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka shohor main hona zarori hay.aurat ko chahiay keh wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo deendaar,paak daman,or baa akhlaaq ho.sharabi nah ho or buraeyoo or muhliq gunaho ka irtekaab nah kerta ho(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 387 pg # 232 ) .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kya biwi ki back side sex kr skty hain

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kya mn apni biwi ko kiss kar sagta hn

Answer: Shohar or biwi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay.(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11). Note : mian biwi aik dosray ko kiss kar saktay hain. .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: shohar biwi ko kiss kar sagta ha

Answer: Shohar or biwi k lye jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay.(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11 .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Kia husband ko biwi apnay haath sy discharge karay tou yeh haram hai?aur auraten bagair intercourse k discharge ho jaen tou un per gusul wajib hota hai?

Answer: 1)Biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main lay kar musht zani(masturbation/hand practice) kar sakti hai.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) 2)Wo ratubat jo aurat say shehwat k saath Khaarij hoti hay Agar is Hadd tak ho kay usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aalooda kar day , jo aam tor par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intihaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib(Jis par ghusl wajib hota hay) shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345) .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: a.o.a mera sawal ye he k apna penis(sharamgah) biwi ko suck karwana jaiz he?

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15).Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).