QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Mufti sb mera sawal ye hai k bacha paida honey ke baad kitne din sex na krain. Aur in dinoo mein husbnd wif kis tarah rahain . Plz reply me fast

Answer: 1)Aurat ko bacha paida honay k 10 din tk jo khoon ata hay osay nifaas kehtay hain. Aur jo aurat nifaas ki halat may ho os say jima karna haram hay lakin os par koi kaffara nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 504) note : Behtr hay k is baray mai doctor sai roju karain k bacha paida honay k 10 din k baad kab intercourse kar saktay hai ya nhi ya kitnay din tk intercourse nhi krna chaheay. .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Salaam kya bivi ki sharamgaah dekh sakte hai?

Answer: 1)Biwi aur shohar k lye Apni sharamgahoo ko aik doosary say chupana lazim nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 53) .Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Assalam-o-alaikum mera swal ye ha k kya shohar b.v k boobs(dodh wali jaga) k center ma penis ragar skta ha or kya koi lrka apni girl friend ka dodh pee skta ha

Answer: 1)Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se cho sakhtay hein. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236) 2)Biwi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah # 30).Update on dated 07-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: ager shoher 4 years se apni wife se na mila ho aur 4 years baad talaq ho jay tou kia ourat per iddat wajib hogi?

Answer: Shohar nay 4 saal say pehlay khabi hambistri ki ho aur phir talaq di to zarori hay k bivi talaq k baad iddat rakhay. Laikin agar hambistri khabi nahi ki aur talaq day to bivi per iddat nahi hay. yani bivi talaq k foran baad nikah kar sakti hay. Iddat: Aisi aurat ki iddat jis k 2 haiz ka darmiyani faasla 3 maah(month) se kam ho, ye hay jab os ka shohar usay paaki ki halat me talaq day (yaani jab wo periods main nah ho) tu jab os aurat ko talaq k baad teesra haiz (menses) aay tu oski iddat mukammal hojati hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2475 ) .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: shaadi ki pehale raat jab room dakel ho va waqt kya karna chaheya

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho, or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: A.O.A Mara Swaal ya hy k adr eak larki apny husband ki marzi sy ya us ki ijazt sy ksi or k sath sex krti hy.2. ya ap husband k mjbir krny py aysa krti hy to as sort main gunah gar kon hoga? maray dono swalon k jwab degeay ga thanks

Answer: 1)Zina kerna aur Aurat ka kisi bhi na-mehram merd ko choomna or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 ) Agar shoardar orat zina kary to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo aurat zaani par hameshah k lie haram ho jati hai laikin shohar par haram nahi hoti or agar toba o istighfaar nah-karay or apny amal par baqi rahy to behter ye hai k us ka shoher usy talaq dedey laikin shoher ko chahiay k us ka meher bhe day day. (Ref : TauzeehulMasailAyatullah Sistani d.b. masla # 2367) .Update on dated 10-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kya biwi ko backside yani front ke hise main karne se bache to sahe aata hain us ko koi nuksan to nahi hota,or jab sharam gha biwi ke andar ho to baat kar sakte hain ,or oil ke sath karne se bache peDA HO to koi nuksan to nahio hota

Answer: 1)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay.(Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) 2)Jima k doran baat krna makrooh hai agar ye k Allah ka zikr kar sakta hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 5) 3)Penis par oil k massag krnay k baray mai doctor sai roju karain. .Update on dated 17-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: moni kharij kiye baghair sex kese kia jay?

Answer: Zaujah ko piyaar kernay os k bosay lainay(kissing) os ko khud se liptane or isi terah k dosray jinsi kaamo(sex) ko ker k baghair mani k kharij k sex ker saktay hain.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part#3 maslah # 8). .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kia biwi k peechay se jima(hambistari) kia ja sakta hey.

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna(yani anal sex kerna) bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Suhagraat me bibi ke sath sohbat karne se pahle ki dua kya he? or bibi ke sath sohbat karne ka islami tarika kya he?

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).