QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: can if put finger in my wife anus and can she put finger in my anus

Answer: Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se cho sakhtay hein.laikin jism k hissay k alawa koe aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi ker saktay.or shohar ka bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli daal ker mani nikaalna jaiz hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012) .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Agar shohar biwi se sari umer mubashrat na kary tu nikah pe asar tu nahi parta?

Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi karsakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kartay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

Question: Anal sex krna ku gunah ha aur oral sex krna ku nahi gunah ha.aur mera shohar mujhe western kapre jese shorts aur sandos type ka cloth lake deten han kia inhen pehana gunah ha?

Answer: 1-Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). 2-Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). 3-Aurat na mehram k samnay apne tamaam badan aur sar k baal chupana zarori hai sawae apna chahra aur hataili zahir kar sakhti he. Ba’shartay k is se fail e haram me mubtila honay ka khatra na ho, is ka maqsad mardoon ko haram me mubtila karna na ho aura am tor per fail e haram me mubtila honay ka sabab na babay warna agar fail e haram me mubtila honay ka khatra ho to mehram mard se bhi parda karna wajib ho ga. 4)aur aurat k lie jaiz nahi he k wo apnay qadmoo ki pusht na mehram mardoon k samnay zahir karay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 501 , 502 pg # 265) Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: mera sawal yah hai k mera ek bata hai aur abhi m mazeed alad nai chata to m biwi ki ejazat se muni bahar likalta ho to kia yah jayaz hai aur kia rooz jima rana jayaz hai

Answer: Jima(intercourse) k doran jis waqt mani nikalnay wali ho to bahar discharge hona jaiz.(Ref :Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3, masla #10), Agar aurat haiz aur nifaas se paak ho to os se har din humbistri ki ja sakte hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #448 ). UPDATE ON DATED 26-10-2015. (KHUDA AAP KO ULOOM E AAL E MUHAMMAD(S.A.W.W) SEKHNE KA AJAR ATA FARMAEY).

Question: Shhadi k baad larkey k leay Bivi k haqooq purey karna ziada aham hai ya waalda k.....! ya donon brabri ke satha pey purey hon.....!

Answer: Insaan per apni bivi or maan baap ka naan o nafqa wajib hay. Laikin maan , baap ka naan o nafqa os sorat main daina wajib hay jab wo faqeer o nadaar hoon.laikin bivi ka naano o nafqa her sorat main wajib chahay bivi maal daar ho ya nahi, or agar baita ghareeb ho or wo apni bivi or maan, baap ka naan o nafqa dainay ki taqat nah rakhta ho tu jab wo naan o nafqa dainay k qabil ho bhi jay tu os per wajib nahi hay k wo zamana e ghurbat ka naan o nafqa apnay maan baap ko ada karay laikin shohar per bivi ka wo naan o nafqa ada kerna wajib hay jo wo zamana e ghurbat main bivi ko nahi day saka tha.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#3, maslah#456+413+440+433). .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Aslam o alikum mera sawal ye hai k kya husband and wife akathay naha (gusal) ker saktay hain

Answer: Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k tamaam jism ko daikh saktay hain,or isi terah aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay.(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11).Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: mri wife pragnet he 5 month sa main kab tak oss k sath humbistree kar sakta hon?plzzz right ans batye ga,

Answer: 1) Jab biwi hamila ho to wazu kar k hambistri karna mustahib he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3,masla # 5) Note: Doran e hamal jima kertay waqt is baat ka zaroor khiyaal rakha jay k aap jima k waqt bivi k pait per apnay jism ka wazan nah daalain, is say hamal ko nuqsaan pohanch sakta hay.aam taur per doctor hazraat 8th mahinay say jima kernay say mana kertay hain.laikin ye her aurat ki jismani kaifiyaat or taqat per muhasir (depend) hota hay.hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or hamal ko nuqsan pohchanay wali chizoo say perhaiz karain. .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Kya biwi ke vagina mai ungali daal sakte hai kya jayez nahi hai jaldi bataye please

Answer: Shohar aur biwi apnay badan k kisi bhi hissay ko doosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se cho sakhtay hein.laikin jism k hissay k alawa koe aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi ker saktay.or shohar ka bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli daal ker mani nikaalna jaiz hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012) .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: salaam mera question ye he k me ne apni sali k sath sex kr liya he or me ne suna he k aisi surat me apni bv se nikah toot jata he plz muje jaldi btaen.

Answer: 1)Jee nahi,Sali se zina kerne ki wajah se bivi apnay shohar par haram nahi hoti or nikah baaqi rehta hay.(Ref: E-mail rcvd from A.sistani, dated:Apr 11, 2012 ). 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: main ny pehly b sawal kya tha k kya syed larki ki shadi ghiar syed larkt sy ho skti hy? ap ny kaha tha k han mera sawal ye hy k mery ghr waly nae manty k meri shadi ghair syed sy ho hala k wo larka shia hy main kya kru?

Answer: syedah shia aurat ka nikah ghair syed shia merd k saath hosakta hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221),kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2341-42), .Update on dated 26-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).