QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: kiya 15 ka larka 13 ki larki se pyaar kar na jaiz hain?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti karna (mohabbat) jaiz nahi q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof maujood hai. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: Mein aik larki se pyar krta hun aur hum aik dosrey se shadi krna chahtey they aur kissing aur baqi b bohat kuch krtey rahey lakin zina nai kia. Kya mohabat me aisa krna jaiz hai?

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: kya 10 saal ka larka ki 13-14 saal ki larki ke sath kuch nange khel khelta hai magar fuck nai karta to ye zina hai.

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: kiya urat hud ko kisi larke k sth tasavr kare tu yeh gunha hai???

Answer: Haram cheeze k bare me sochna jab k wo shewat ka sabab bane agar mani nikalne ka sabab na bane to ehtiyat e mustahab ya hai k ise tarak kar deya jae.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part #2, sawaal # ,199 pg # 83) ( Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: salam sir mera sawal ye hay me ek larki sy bohat muhabbat karta hun wo bi karti hay to plz koi asa wazifa batein jo hum ek dojy k ho jay plz sir larki k maa baap or behan nahi maan rahi plz koi dua ya wazifa bata dayen plz plz

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain. 1) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi koun k gunah mai mubtila hone ka khof majood he. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). 2) Hazrat Imam jaffar e sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k jo surah e taha ko likh kar sabz rashmi kapray mai lepait kar apnay pas rakhay aur shadi k qasad say kisi k pas jae to osi nakaam nahi lotna paray ga aur wo shadi ho kar rehay gi. (Ref : Dunya aur aakhirat ki 100 perashanion ka hal pg # 18) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) ok by tabish rizvi

Question: mera ye sawal hai mje koi wazefa btaye ma ek larki se buhat pyar hon or wo b mje se buhat karti hai par uska rishta teh ho gaya hai ap btye jis se hamari mushkly asan ho jyen

Answer: 1)Mard ko chahae k jis aurat sai shadi karna chahta hai os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukravi muamilaat me sohar ki madad gar sabit ho. Mard k lie ye munasib nahi he k biwi k intikhab me is ka metmae nazar sirf is ka zaaheri husn o Jamaal aur maal o dulat ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 386 pg # 232). 2)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: jis larki sae shadi honay wali ho aus k sath phone pae bat karna ya msg karna jaiz hay?

Answer: Mangetar na mehram he aur Mangetar se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, karnay mai koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: aik larke ka larki se baat krna kitna bara gunah he?

Answer: Agar na-mehram ki batoo k darmiyan me aisi batain nah ki jayen jo ek muslman ke shayane shan nahi hain to koi haraj nahi. albatta aurat ki zimmedari bhi he k wo apni awaz ko itna khubsurat or barik n banae jo insan k jazbat ko abharne wali ho. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: a.a main ik larki say dosti karna chahta hon . Aur wo larki bi razi hai to kaya quran aur sunaat is ki ijazt data hai ?

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)Albatta islam pasand ki shadi ijazat deta hai ap khuda se dua kren k ap ki us se shadi hojaye, or is k liye ham apko ke wazeefa dete hen. Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: me aik house wife ho me gr pr rh kr ilm hasil krna chati ho mujhy konsi book prhni chaheye . dosra sawal yeh hai k kya aik lady kisi gents sy reiki seikh sakty hai.

Answer: 1)Aap ko chahea k pehlay apnay usool e deen ko pechanain, phir deeni masail k lie kisi mujtahid ki taqleed karain ta k is sai apnay sharie masail maloom kar sakain aur ibteda mai aap ko chahea k usool e deen aur faro e deen aur chardah masoomeen a.s. sai mutaliq kitaboo ka mutala karain. (Ref : http://sistani.org/index.php?p=815209&id=1870) 2)Aap is ilm (reiki) ko seekh sakti hain magar ye k pardah k khayal rakha jae. Is k alawa is ilm ka teacher ap ko hath na lagay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397-2406) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).