Question: Asslamalikum mera ek sawal hai kiya shohar se pocket money le sakti hai. Jabki uska shohar sara kharch uthata hai.
Answer: Answer 1-Shohar per wajib hay k wo bivi ki ghiza, libaas or rihaaish or jin chezon ki osko hajat hoti hay apni haisiat k mutabiq ferhaam karay). Update on dated 08-12-2015. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2376). Note: 2-agar shohar ye wajib naam o nafaqqah pora ker raha ho tu phir os per aap ko alag se kherchah daina wajib nahi, aap ka mutaalba kerna tu jaiz hay k aap shohar se guzarish karain laikin shohar ki merzi hay k wo is mutaalbay ko pora karay ya nah karay. Update on dated 08-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: YA ALI MADAD MERA QUESTION HA K NIKAH DAIMI HO YA NIKAH MUTAH HO KIA SHOHER APNI BIVI KY SATH ANAL SEX KR SKTA CHAHAY WIFE KI IJAZAT HO
Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay). (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B.) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Kia mian apni biwi ka seena choos sakta ha?
Answer: Sohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay, laikin agar sohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jaay). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Kya orat mrd ka oragan khas chom skti hy sex k doran ya pyar mn
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Assalamualikum. Are there any particular days mentioned in the Hadith that you should refrain from having intercourse with your wife. If there then please mention these days.
Answer: Jima karna kuch ayyam mai makrooh hai jin mai sai chand ye hain. 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) Is k alawa chand ayyam mai jima krna haram hai os mai sai aik ye hai k jab aurat haiz ki halat mai ho to os sai jima krna haram hai aur is k alawa bacha paida honay k 10 din tk jo khoon ata hai os mai jima krna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448,504). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: bivi aur bandi main kia faraq hai bandi sy agar koi bucha ho tou uska future?
Answer: Jee haan. Laudi(kaneez/ bandi) baghair nikah k halal hay or is say tamaam lazzaat hasil ker saktay hain jis terah bivi say hasil ker saktay hain. (Ref : A.Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen, part#2, 5 mujtahid k mutabiq, maslah#1320, pg # 430). Note: ye baat wazeeh rahay k aaj k zamanay main ghulaam or laundi(kaneez) nahi hotay.is liay in masa’il per amal kerna mumkin nahi hay). ( Ref : A.Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen, part#3, maslah#10 ka hashiya, pg # 11). Update on dated 08-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: mian biwi ki hum bistari kis din mana hai
Answer: Agar aurat haiz aur nifaas se paak ho to os se har din humbistri ki ja sakte hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #448 ) Update on dated 12-02-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: mara lun bath chta hai as ko bare karnee our mazboth karnee k koye hal bata dy
Answer: 1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2) Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}). (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). Update on dated 08-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: mara lun bath chta hai as ko bare karnee our mazboth karnee k koye hal bata dy
Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay). (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). Update on dated 12-02-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: mufti sahab assalam alikom sir kiya apne husband ka lunk sucks kerna jayez hai is he terhan kiya husband aappni wife ki woo sucks ker sakta hai plzz answer ALLAHA HAFIZ
Answer: 1)Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain). Update on dated 12-02-2015. (ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11). 2)Sohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay, laikin agar sohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jaay). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org ). Update on dated 12-02-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).