QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: ASLAM O ALIKUM molana sahib ap say mujy sohagrat ki dua ka puchna ha ap mujy who dua bata dain Jazaq Allah

Answer: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan) (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 , 5). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Meri shai nahi hoti kindly check my status..har jaga say man ho jatahia..main Scientist hoon or munasib soorat ki hoon...family back ground bhi acha hai or khud bhi strong hoon...meri ammi ka nam surrya yaseen or abu ka nam Ahmed ali hai .. Age 26 hai..

Answer: Rasool allah ne farmaya: surah yaaseen ki tilawat kiya kare is me 10 barkate hai (us me se aik ye hai k ) jin ki shadi nahe hoi hai wo shadi shuda ho jaay ghe. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18). Update on dated 12-02-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). .

Question: salam sir mere umar 23 sal ha or mere wife pregnent ha agr mera dil humbistri ko chahy or main apni wife k undr hi farag ho jao to is ka koi nuqsan to nahi

Answer: Biwi k haamla hone ki surat me jima (intercourse) se phele khaas tour se wuzu karna mustahab hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ) Note: Hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or on ki batae hoe ehtiyaat per amal karain. Q k bohot mumkin hay k bey-ehtiyaat i se jima kerne se kaheen pait k taankay khul nah jain. Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: AOA.meri biwi meray na chahtay huway apni marzi sy apni ammi k ghar chali gi hy.jab k koi larai bhi nahi huwi.hum ne 10 din pehlay jimma kia tha.ab main jimma karnay k liay bahot pereshan hoon.mujhe batain k main kia karoon.

Answer: Ache aklaak ka izhaar karte howe un ke ghar ja kar un ko le kar aa jaain). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Or islam men ek biwi k kiya ahkamat hen wo unhen btaen). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: AULAD KAY LIYE KYA TARIKA HY HAMBISTARI KA

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Mein apni wife ka vagina choom sakta hoon aur kia wo mera penis suck kar sakti hai. Ham bohat chahte hain ye karna

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Kia main Anal Sex Kar sakta hoon bivi ke sath agar wo menses me hai.

Answer: 1)Haiz ( manses) k ayyaam (days) main aurat (women) ki farj mein jima karna mard aur aurat dono k liay haram hai, chahay dukhool sirf supari(paishab ki nali ka shuru ka chikna hissa) ki had tak hi ho aur mani bhi kharij na ho, balkah ehtiyaat-e-wajib yeh hai k supari se kam miqdar main bhi dukhool na kia jae. Albetta back mai jima, aurat k razi hone ki surat me jaiz hai ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448-451). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: jab wife ko husband sex k liey bolay aur wo na jay to farishtay lanat krtay hain wife pay keya husband wife k pas sex k liey na ay to husband py b lant hoti hai

Answer: 1) Bivi k liay zarori hay k jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatain hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori kare or share majbori(maslan periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari se nah roke,2)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi karsakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kartay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2376-7, 2382). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: shabe juma humbistari karna mustahab kyun kaha hai

Answer: Agar koe mard shabe jumma apne biwi se jima(humbistri) karta hai to jo baccha paida ho gha wo fasahat e bayaani aur sheeri zabaan me mashoor ho ga or koe khateeb oski hamsari nah ker sake ga. (ref: tehzeeb ul islam, allama, baqir majlese, pg: 134). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: as salam o alikum muhay apsay yeh poochna tha k bacha paida karnay ka kiya tareeka hai ku k na hi tu mujhay pata hai na meray husband ko

Answer: Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).