QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: salaam, agar koi pakistan say bahir job karta ho or us ki chutti saal ke bad ho to is doran wo biwi say door rehnay per gunahgar to nahi ho ga?

Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reson) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Agha Seestani,maslah #2382). .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kya islam mein shaadi kay baad husband aur wife aik dosre ko naked dekh sakte hai aur kya aik doosray ki sharam gah ko kiss kar sakhtay hein??

Answer: 1)shohar aur biwi aik dosray k badan k zahari aur baatni tamaam hisso hatta keh sharamgah ko bhi dekh sakhtay hein. shohar aur biwi dono apne badan k kisi bhi hissay ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se muss ya cho saktay hein chahae lazzat se ho ya baghair lazzat k. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) 2) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: salamuallaykum ,muje pehlirat ki dua aur tarika bataiye meri shadi hone wali he

Answer: 1) Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) 2) Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #5) .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: Istimna k jism par kia nuqsanat hotay hain. or iss ki aadat ko kaisay tark kia jaye?

Answer: 1)istimna kisi bhi zariye se ho haram he. . (ref : jaded faqhi masayl masla # 462 , 458 pg # 253) 2)ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 2) ye tassavur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 3)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 4)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: mera sawla ye hai kay biwi kay sath inter course kay doran poray clooth itar saktay hain,kya tube light jala saktay hain,oar kya batain karsaktay hain?

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,+ 2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: kia islam main bivi ka apnay husband k lower parts ko kiss karna jaiz hay ,or husban apni bivi ki breast ko moon main dal kar choom sakta hay

Answer: 1)Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice) kar sakti hai.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 2) Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: mard k bar bar bivi ko sex karnay par razi karnay k bawajood b bivi razzi na ho to bivi k liyay kya gunah hain

Answer: 1)Bivi k liay zarori(wajib) hay k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e majbori(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay. 2) Agar koi aurat hambistri aur jinsi lazzat k silsile me ki khowish puri na karay to roti , kapray aur makan ka wo zimadar nahi he. Agar chahe wo shohar k pas hi rahay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2376,2377). .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: aoa.sawal ye ha k. pregnancy ma admi konsay mahinay tak biwi k saat inter course kar sakta ha.

Answer: Haamilah (pregnant) biwi say hambistari (Itercourse) kerna haram nahi hay.Mustahab hay k biwi say wuzu ker k hambistari ki jaay waqt khaas taur per jab wo haamilah ho.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen,part#3,maslah#5). Note: Doran e hamal jima kertay waqt is baat ka zaroor khiyaal rakha jay k aap jima k waqt bivi k pait per apnay jism ka wazan nah daalain, is say hamal ko nuqsaan pohanch sakta hay.aam taur per doctor hazraat 8th mahinay say jima kernay say mana kertay hain.laikin ye her aurat ki jismani kaifiyaat or taqat per muhasir (depend) hota hay.hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or hamal ko nuqsan pohchanay wali chizoo say perhaiz karain. .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: HELLO SIR KIA BIVI HUABAND KA PENIS MOUTH MAIN DAAL SAKTI HAI AUR HUSBAND BIVI KI VAGNIA KAY ANDAR SAY SUCK SAKTA HAI

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jay(.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: hello molvi sahib kia main wife ki vagnia ko suck chooos sakta hoon aur wife mera penis suck sakti hai aur main wife kay samnay hand say mini nikal sakta hoon plz reply me thanks

Answer: shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice) kar sakti hai.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).