Question: main apni job ki wajah sai apni bewi sai door houn aisi sorat main main apni baligh bewi sai mobashrat nai ker saka to meri lia kia hukam hai quran-o-ahadess ki roshnia main
Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Ayatullah Sistani (d.b.),maslah #2382) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: main nai sunna hai kah biwi kai sath peechay sai kernay sai nikah toot jata hai kia yah theek hai ya nai
Answer: biwi k saath peechay k maqaam(pakhanay k maqaam) main hambistari kernay say nikah nahi toota. biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: main ghar se ek sal kaliye bahar ho biwi se dor .keyamain internet or tv per kuch ladki ki nagi filim dekh ker apne zarurat pura katra hu baki main 5wakti nemazi hun
Answer: Fehesh manaazir(sexy movie/ picture) lazzat ki nigaah say daikhna haraam hain or ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par lazzat k baghair bhi daikhna haram hain. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded fiqhi masail, maslah #492-3). Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Ayatullah Sistani (d.b.),maslah #2382). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: kya shadi ke baad bivi ko penis muh me de sakte hai.or dusra sawal shadi se pahle ladki se kiss kar sakta hai. jawab jald dijiyega shukriya.
Answer: 1)na-mehram shadi say pehlay ladki se kiss kerna ya os ko choona jaiz nahi hay.or os ko lazzat ki nazar say daikhna bhi jaiz nahi hay, na-mehram ladki k sirif hathailiyo(palms) or chehra(face) ko baghair lazzat ki niyat k daikhna jaiz hay. 2)Biwi k muh main penis daina Jaiz hay,magar ye kay ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15., jaded fiqhi masail, maslah #459,467). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Is oral sex allowed in islam? if yes than for what extent? Kissing of private part of your spouse is allowed?
Answer: By itself, there is no problem in doing so. However, one should refrain from eating semen or other abominable substances (khabaa’ith).(Ayat Ullah Khamnai(d.b),Email Rcvd,code# 48989430652db9f). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: asalam allakum mera ap sa ya sawal ha ha ka ya kon si hades sa sabat hoia ka shohar bibi ki najast wali jaga ko kiss kr sakta ha or biwi shohar ka nip ko plz muja detal sa btai
Answer: (mujtahid k fatwe Quran-o-Ahadees ki roshni me hote hai or) Muqallid(taqleed kernay wala) ki zimmaydaari apnay mujtahid k fatway k mutabiq baghair daleel or tehqeeq k amal kerna hay.goya aap nay apnay amal ko haar ki terah mujtahid ki gerdan main daal dia hay or khuda k nazdeek is mujtahid ko apnay namah e aamaal ka zimmay daar tehraya hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded fiqhi masail, maslah #22 ki heading). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: assalamualakum,,,,,shadi ke pehli raat shriyet ke mutabik kise karna hai,,,ehkam kya kya steps hain,,,,,,,shukriya,,allah hafiz,
Answer: jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah 5). .Update on dated 13-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: kya bivi ki neechay wali jga ko zuban lgai ja sakti hay or kya bivi shohar ka nufs moon main dal sakti hay
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) .Update on dated 13-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: is a man can have a intercourse with his pregnant wife and for what time?
Answer: 1)Jab biwi hamila ho to wazu kar k hambistri karna mustahib he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3,masla # 5) 2) Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgAns : Agar ghusl k doran peshab kar de to is ghusl ko tark kar k new siray se ghusl karna zurari nahi he balke wo apnay is ghusl ko mukammal kar sakhta he ,is surat me ethiat e lazim ki ki bina per wazu karna bhi zurari he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 384) .Update on dated 11-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: can i put my penis in ass of my wife if she agree
Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).