Question: AGAR KISI LADKE SE ZINA HO JAYE JISSE VO PYAR KARTA THA KAFI TIME VO SATH RHE PAR VO LADKI USE CHOR GAYE TO USKE LIYE ALLAH SE MAFI KAISE MANGE
Answer: 1: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij). 2: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69). 3: Zina ka kuffara sache dil se toba karna hai lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37). 3-Tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). [Updated on 19-Nov-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Zina ???
Answer: zina gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij). [Updated on 19-Nov-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Agr shadi sy phly ksi k sath physical contact rha ho lkn phr toba kr lain n dbara aesa na krain tw kya günah ki sza mly gi ya magferat k liyay koi amal krna pry ga?
Answer: 1: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij). 2: Zina ka kuffara sache dil se toba karna hai lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijiye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37). 3: Tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. Yaqeenan Allah taala Gafoor o Raheem hai.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). [Updated on 30-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Agr 1 larki k sth koi shakhs zyadti krta ha..to kya us larki ka is bat ko chupana jaiz ha(apny parents ki izzat k liea) islam ma??
Answer: Jaiz hai. (Ref: Mujtahid say pochay gaey sawalaat, part#2, mafhoom e pg#88). [Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Asalam o alaikum. Mai zina kar chuka hu bht dafa. Jb karta hu to dedamat hoti hai phir thoray arsay baad dil karta hai to phir zina kar leta hu. Mujy is gunah say bachnay ka tariqa bata dain
Answer: 1: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij). 2: Zina se bachne ka tariqa: ye hai ke aap shadi kar lain, Q k Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 3: Is ke elawa Gunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassaain. 2) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 3)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 4)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain. 5) apne aap ko sport(khail) study(parhai) men masroof rakhen, is ke elawa aur mufeed kamon men apne aap ko masroof rakhen…. etc (Ref : kitab tark e ghunahan ke 40 tariqay). [Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Kisi na mehraam larky k sath sex ki baatien krna or sex imagine krna sirf chatting main. Real main touch b na kiya ho. Kya ye b zina hai?
Answer: Na-mehram se sex ki batain karna jaiz nahin hai, na mehram se aisi baatain ki jasakte hain jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aisi baat bhi nah ki ja rahi ho jis ka kise ajnabi k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota .or agar gunah mai parhne ka khof ho agarcheh ahista ahista parhne ka hi khoof Q na ho baat karna jaiz nahi hay isi tarah gher akhlaqi or mazaq mai bhi warid hona jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) & http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01845/). [Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mera sawal main shadi shuda larki hun main apni cousion sath fursat sath hambistri ki hai ab shohar aya hai kuwait se main apne shohar ki hamla hun kia mera nikah tut chuka tha or yah anay wali olad halal hai ya haram...
Answer: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hoy hai lehaaza lazim hai k zaani khuda sai tauba karay. Shadi shuda aurat sai agar koi zina karay tou ehtiyaate e wajib ki bina par wo zaani par hamesha k liay haraam ho jaati hai. laikin apne shohar par haram nahin hoti (yani nikah baqi rehta hai). (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail Ayatullah Sistani, edition #39th, maslah#2367) Zina k zariay jo aulad ho gi wo haram zada ho gi lekin agar aurat pehly se hi apne shohar se hamila thi to aulad halal zada hogi. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayatullah sistani(d.b), part #1, masla #30) [Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Sir agar ak 14 Saal Ka larka 13 Saal ke lrke say sex lite lekin leken larke Ka sharamga to band hota aur larka aus ke saat Kuch kiss aur Kuch about kre to ye zina hai
Answer: 1: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai. Zina ye hota hay k aik baligh or aqil merd(yani jo pagal na ho) apne uzo e tanasul(penis) ko hashfe(glanspenis) ki miqdaar k baraber aik aisi aurat ki agli(vegina) ya pichli(anus) sharamgaah main daale jo is merd k liay halal na ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30) & (Ref: Al-Lumatud damashqiyah, part #3, chapter kitab e hodood, pg #313) 2: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona ya os ka bosa(kiss) laina ya gale lagana haram hai, chahe lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k baghair ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeeh ul masail, Edition #39, maslah #2397) [Updated on 03-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: bhai bhen ka sex ka dill qu karta hea
Answer: Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumaar kia gaya hai. (Ref: Minhaj us salaheen Ayatullah sistani(d.b), part #1 Edition 2009, masla # 30) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam(zina) me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b.) Edition 41st Maslah #2407) Gunah se bachane ke liye, koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karer. Agar koi khud par qabo nah paa sakta ho to roza rakhe Q k roza ghunahon k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). [Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: mera swal ye hy k agr bchu( bchy or bchi ) ny nadani m aik dusry ko hath se jism ko touch kiya or nzrun se daikha to kya ye zina hy or is k liye kya krna chaeye ?
Answer: Ye zina nahin kehlata, balke Zina ye hota hay k aik baligh or aqil merd(yani jo pagal na ho) apne uzo e tanasul(penis) ko hashfe(glanspenis) ki miqdaar k baraber aik aisi aurat ki agli(vegina) ya pichli(anus) sharamgaah main daale jo is merd k liay halal na ho.(Ref: Al-Lumatud damashqiyah, part #3, chapter kitab e hodood, pg #313) (Note: Agar bache mumayyiz(samajhdar) hon yani jo ache aur bure ko samajhte hon to aap unhen samjain aur batain ke ye chizen islam men haram hain aur is se gunah milata hai. aur walidain ki bhi zimedari hai ke wo apne bachon ki achi tarbiyat karen, aur unhen achi aur burio chizon agah karen.) [Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]