Question: Salam o Alikum For intercourse, can we use any type of spray , oil or medicine to increase timing
Answer: Yes it is allowed (Ref: email recived from Aga Sistani date:13-10-2014) [Updated on 24-Jan-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Meri bivi kisi sahdi shuda larkay sa zna kiay ha aur 1 sal bad ma btaya ha aur mujha sa mafi mang rahi ha kia mujha karna chiya ha ?
Answer: Agar shohar dar aurat zina kare to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par woh zani par hamesha ke liay haram ho jati hai, lekin shohar par haram nahi hoti aur agar toba wa istaghfar na kare aur apne amal par baqi rahe (yaani zina kaari tark na kare) to behtar yeh hai keh us ka shohar usay talaq dede lekin shohar ko chahiye keh us ka meher bhi de. (Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani(D.B), Tauzeeh Ul Masail, Masla no 2367). Note: bivi ko maaf karna ya talaq daina aap ki marzi per mauqoof hay. App in dono main se kisi bhi kaam ko anjaam day sakte hain. [Updated on 19-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Meri bivi pregnant hai , Dr ne sex ke liye Mana Kiya hai magar mujhe sex karna hai main Kya karu?
Answer: Jab biwi hamila ho to wazu kar k hambistri karna mustahib he 2 haamilah pregnant biwi say hambistari intercourse kerna haram nahi hay biwi say halat e haiz period or nifaas main hambistari kerna haraam hay. (Ref: Ayat ullah seestani d b minhaajus saliheen part 3 maslah 5 tauzeehul masail ayatullah sistani d b maslah 2382 email received from ayat ullah seestani d b+tauzee hul masail maslah 448 504) Note: Doran e hamal jima kertay waqt is baat ka zaroor khiyaal rakha jay k aap jima k waqt bivi k pait per apnay jism ka wazan nah daalain is say hamal ko nuqsaan pohanch sakta hay aam taur per doctor hazraat 8th mahinay say jima kernay say mana kertay hain laikin ye her aurat ki jismani kaifiyaat or taqat per muhasir depend hota hay hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or hamal ko nuqsan pohchanay wali chizoo say perhaiz karain. [Updated on 18-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Salam ..main apni bivi se 1 saal hogya hy dor hun ...meri bivi ko aur mjy bhi sex ka dil krta h kia phone par sex krskty hain ya ni plzzz jwb dain???
Answer: 1. Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009). 2. nikah ke baad miyan biwi ek dosre ke liay pori tarah mehram hai, ap dono ek dosre ke pore badan ko dekh sakte hain. (Mafhoom e Masla) (Ref : Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no 2376-2400). 3. 2)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382) [Updated on 18-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Meri bivi zna kar k ai han kisi shadi shuda larkay k sath 2 baar us na 1/2 saal bad aitraf kiya ha aur mujha sa mafi mang rahi ha kiya mujha us ko talak da dani chiyan
Answer: Agar shohar dar aurat zina kare to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par zani par hamesha ke liay haram ho jati hai lekin shohar par haram nahi hoti aur agar toba wa istaghfar na kare aur apne amal par baqi rahe (yani zina kari tark na kare) to behtar yeh hai keh us ka shohar use talaq de de lekin shohar ko chahiye keh iska meher bhi de. (Ref: Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no 2367 ). [Updated on 17-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Salam, please confirm ID 10574 pe jo answer hy wo sahi hai or kis aqide k mutabiq hy or kaha se sabit hy. Thanks
Answer: is website par fiqh e jaffiyah k mutabiq jawabaat diay jaate hain. or jawabaat k sath hawalah bhi diya jaata hay. [Updated on 15-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Agr 6 ya 7 sal ki bachi apne ami abu ko hum bistri krta dekh ly tu deen k mutabik kia krna chahiye?
Answer: Ye makhrooh hay keh os jagah jima kia jaey jahan nabaligh bacha ya bachi daikh rahi ho, jab tak haram ka lazima nah ho warna tu aisa karna jazi hoga. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#3, Maslah#5,eidition 1439 ). [Updated on 14-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Sehwat sy kya Murad ha
Answer: Shehwat se murad jinsi lazzat hay.(Ref: https://ur.oxforddictionaries.com/translate/urdu-english/%D8%B4%DB%81%D9%88%D8%AA) [Updated on 14-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: mera swaal hai,,,, husband agr ksi dosry mulk mai job kar rha ho to kya biwi ka ban sawar kar bahr jana thek hai?
Answer: Shohar ki ijazat se bivi k liay ghar se bahar jana jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 2019 edition, maslah #2376). [Updated on 13-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: mera swaal hai,,,, husband agr ksi dosry mulk mai job kar rha ho to kya biwi ka ban sawar kar ghar sy bahr jana thek hai?
Answer: Shohar ki ijazat se bivi k liay ghar se bahar jana jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 41th edition, maslah #2376). [Updated on 13-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]