QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: - ma ya pochna chati hon k aurat kunwari ya shad shuda job kar sakete ha or kia use karne chaya -ma na ap se pehle bhi sawal pocha tha magar jawab nahi mila, sawal ya ha k mare husband aksar muje ya bachon ko dante ha ya ma bhi late han, ma un ki dant ya marne par bhi khamoosh rehte hon to kia muje khamoosh rehna chaye ya amar bil maroof nahi anal munkir ke ehkam wife or bacho par bhi ho te ha maslan agar aik aurat apne shohar ki izat na kare ya bad tameeze kar , ya bache apne walid ya walda se bad tameezi karen to kia shohar apni wife par or walden bachon par aml bil maroof or nahi anal munkir ka process istemal kar sakete han . yani pehle samjhain or phir sakhte karen ya physical punishment den

Answer:

Question: salaam. meri marzi ke khalaf shadi hui thi 21 ki umar mai. or mere husband mujhe har tarha se dukh pohanchata tha or muj par ilzam lagata tha ke mai jadugarni hun or mai sab ghar valo par jadu karti hun. or usne apni taraf se kahin se kuch karva ke kisi cheez ke nichay dab deta tha. ye har roz ka kam tha . phir har wakat muj par thokna mere khane mai thokna mere kam ka nuksan karna. mujhe bura bhla kehna. mere dil ko har tarha se takleef deta tha or ghar vale us ki bat ka yakeen karte thay. or mai khamosh rehti thi 5 wakat namaz ki paband thi or kabhi ghar se bahir ney nikalti thi. ghar ka sara kam kaj me khud karti thi. mere dukh mai koi kam ney ata tha. mene bohut sabar kiya magar mere husband ne mera jeena dushwar kar diya. phir mai use chor kar uk mai wapas agai. mere pas ek beti bhi hai. mene talaq mangi magar mujhe talaq ney di. ab aj 11 sal hochuke hai. tab se apni bchi ke sath rehti hun. mai apne wakeel se talaq ke kagaz usko bhej diye thay. magar islamic talaq ney mili. mai pakistan mai uske sath ek sal tak rahi hun. mene kabi koi galat kam ney kiya magar mujhe soch ajati hai ke itne sal akeli ne guzar diye. koi acha larka mil jaye me shadi karlun. ese mujse koi gunah ney hoga. mai sabar shukar se ghar mai rehti hun. magar mera nafs chahta hai k mai talaq le kar kisi achay larke se shadi karne ka irada hai. mujhe ney pata ke mujhe islamicly talaq hogai hai ya nahi. magar english divorse mil gai hai. mere dil ko tasali ney hai. mene is safa par paha k talaq ney lesakte mard se. phir me sochti hun ke vo chahe kesa bhi ho. ham jesi aurton ki koi kimat hi ney jese koi pau ka juta hai hum. mera dil or bhi dukhi hojata hai. ab aap plz mujhe btaian mai kya karun. ? mere talaq hogai hai. kya mai phis se shadi kar sakti hun? dobara shadi karna gunah hai?

Answer:

Question: Have passed 5 years of marriage, husband has a mother who is bit hard and does not accept me nor our daughter to stay with them, husband in loyalty lives with mother and we both have to stay at parents or own place even husband does not allow us to stay at our seperate place seeking security reason which is not real cause, causually comes to meet both of us and stay for some time and go back. He does not want to understand that the two of us are also his responsibility in terms of our relationship, on his persuation have stayed at mother place several times but every time have been kicked out . Can u pls advise what is husband responsibility and how should he divide himself so can serve and balance both the family and mother . Allah hafiz

Answer:

Question: ASALAM O ALAIKUM MERA SAWAL YE HAI K MERI EK DOST HAY LARKI AGAR WO POCH RAHE HO TO MAIN OS SAY SEX K BARE MAIN BATARA HOO CHUPAY ALFAZO MAIN OR SHAARIYAN WAY MAI TO KIA YE SAHE HAI YAA GALAAT.. OR 2.AGAAR PHONE SEX K BARE MAIN BAT KARE TOO YANI POCHE TO KIA HAI YE Q HAI YE BAAAT KARNA SAHE HAI YA GALAT...???? JULDI BATA YE GA KHUDA HAFIZ

Answer:

Question: mera swal ye hai k ap ky mutabik mard apni bv or bv apny mard yani sohar ki shram gah ko chom sakti hai ya sakta hai .or ap k mutabik pichy sy kia ja sakta hai .TO KIA IS K MUTALK KOI HADEES HAI .YA QURAN E MAJEED SY WAZAHAT KI GAI HIA.PLZ ANS ME SOON...HADEES KA OR QURAN KA HAWALA DIJEEY GA TA K BEHTAR REHNOMAI HO SAKY.THANX

Answer:

Question: salam.....mera swal yeh hai k suhag rat ko niyyat krny k bad sab sy pehla kam kya krna hai?matlb yh hai k biwi ko sex krny k liye kasy raazi krna hai?or kya hum us k boobs ko suhag rat ko choos sakty hain?or kya hum kisi bhi waqt us k boobs ko choos sakty hain?agr woh boobs choosny sy mnah kry to kya krna ho ga?or kya mani us k andar girani hai yani bacha dani main girani hai?

Answer:

Question: Meri pasand ki shadi 2sal phle mre husband se hui thi.pr un k ghar wale mghe khas pasnd nh krte the,shadi k 3month m hi hmare jhagre shru hugae,or waqt guzrta gya Allah k bhrose duaen mang mang k,fr mra shohar mg p hath b utha ne lge apne ghar walon ki bat p or bad m ro ro k mafi mangte or m maf krdti ,even hum dono bht phare likhe hain.ab hum Abroad agae or Allah k karm se hum dono bht achi job p hain lakin aj b whi halat hy mre husband wo mre sath ho k b mre pas nh hote choti choi bat p jhagre,hmare bete p in baton ka asar parta hy,jb m un se khti hn mg chorden m sakoon chati hn,to wo kuch nh khte,m apne ghar ko bachana chati hn,apne shohar bete ko ksi kemat p khona nh chati.please mg koi wazefa btaen jo apne ghar ko acha krsakon,apne husband ko acha krsakon.

Answer:

Question: salam!!! my problem is my husband, he doesnt ever want sex with me, he chats to other women all day, he dnt give me the love n respect a husband shouldgive his wife, i am already reading ya wadoodu... any sujesions on reading something for him to want me to have sex withme...

Answer:

Question: A.s. mera sawal meri shadi ko 5 sal ho gay hain main or meri bv bache peda nahi kara chate us ki waja meri shadi waqat mere 2. Bahi 3 or 4 sal ke the ham ne socha ham in ki parwersh achi karin ge or. Kasi gareb ki madad kar dain ge main spain main hoon bv pakistan har sal 3month k liye jata hoon ham doon khoosh hain kia es thara bache na peda kara guna hi meri soch buri nahi. Pleas

Answer:

Question: Salam agar shohar condom use karey or shehwat na jaey biwi k andaroni maqam me tab ghusul wajib hoga biwi per ya nhi? Or agar mukammal sex na karen sirf uper se pyar krny per shoher or biwi k muqamat se jo pani kharij hota hai us se kaprey napak ho jatey hain? Or ghusul wajib hota hai?

Answer: