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Question: me aik larke se buht pyar karti hon par vo mje ignor karta ha me usu bhulana chati hon plz koi wazifa bataen jese me use bhool jaon

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: Kiya kisi na-mehrum k liye dua maangi jaa sakti hai? Usk liye sadka diya ja sakta hai?

Answer: G han insaniyat k nate jaiz hai, mager ager ye dua o sadqa us se mohabbat o dosti ka sabab bane to jaiz nahi hai is liye k na-mehram se dosti mohabbad jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: mera masla ye hai key mai kisi ko bht pasand krti hu wo b krte hain per hmare ami abu bhtt skht hain to aisa kya prha jay k wo log man jayn aur hm dono unko pasand ajayn ...

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtila honay ka khof moujood hai (Ref: Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) NOTE : Albatta islam pasand ki shadi se mana nahi krta. Imam Jafre Sadiq a.s farmaty hain:jo shaks surae Taha(surah#20) likh kr subz(green) reshmi kapray mai lipate kr apnay [as rakhay aur shadi k iraday sy kisi k pas jaey tou usay na kaam nahi lotna parega aur wo shadi ho kr rahegi.(ref:book dunya o akhirat ki 100 pareshanio ka hal)

Question: iam engaged, kia mein appni mangetar ki body ko touch karsakta hun sexually and i do finger her.. is it ok?

Answer: Mangheter namehram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, ) shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: salam sir ma aik lardki s bhot pyar karta hu,par wo mujhw acha nia samjti or wo muj s nafart kati ha.ap mujhe koi esa solution batien k us k dil ma mere lye pyar paida ho jaye.or wo mujhe khud bulye

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: mera sawal ha k aksar larky aur larkyan phone pe oral sex karty hen. kia ye zina ma shumar hota ha?aur agr hota ha to iska kafara kia ha?

Answer: Na mehram k sath phone par oral sex zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Kon kon se nashe karne haram he aur kya bivi ke alava kise aur se milna cahiye ya nahi

Answer: 1) Sharab(wine), beer, or her wo chez jo mukammal ya juzvi taur per(partial) nasha aawar ho, thos(solid) ho ya maya(liquid) ye sab haram hain.(A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 164). 2) kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 ). Larkay aur larki ka baat karnay me agar lazat aur haram me parhnay ka khof ho to haram he. (ref : kitab nigah aur libas Sawal # 84 Pg # 59). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: AOA mera sawal yeh hay k aik larka aur larki jin ki mangni ho chuki hay kia wo fone par baat kar sakty aur agar koyi sexy baatain ki jayain tu gunha tu nahi plz plz tell me now

Answer: Mangeter se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koi shehwat angaiz baat na ho, koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil na ho aur na hi haram me perhnay ka khauf ho,warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: kia larka or lakrki aik dosray k sath sexy batain mean sexy chat ker sktay hain ya nahin ?

Answer: Biwi k alawa kisi doosray sai fahash batain krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: my question is, is it permissible to kiss, have video sex chat, with your fiance? if not then please explain how i can make things right?

Answer: If there is no such a fear that you might fall into a sin, then there would be no problem to talk you’re your fiancé. But it is not permissible for you to kiss her or have video sex chat with her. You must do marriage with her then these things will be permissible for you. (http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1151 + http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1250&page=2&perpage=10). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)