QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: respected sir, i m 27yrs old and i mastrbated(hand practiced) a lot, aftr doing matsrbation, i felt sorry and did tauba, i did da same many times, means i mastrbatd and did tauba, wether Allah SWT frgve me if i did tauba now with true heart??

Answer: Hand practice(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai. (Ref: jadeed fiqhi masail aqa sistani d.b. pg no. 253 masla #462) Ghuzishta Aamal k liay Allah say Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karay (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: aslamalekum sir me 8 sal se muth marta aa rahu hu mera land niche se teda ho gaya hai aur virya jaldi nikal jata hai. Please upaye bataye

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa

Question: khud se etelam karna Yani apna hat chala kar mani nikalna guna hy?

Answer: Khud lazzati(hand practice\istemna) kerna haram hai aur gunah e kabeera. Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1 , masla#30)(khuda apki tofeeqat mai izafa farmaey).

Question: Muth marne ki adat se chutkara please

Answer: Rozana ya Allaho ka 1000 martaba wird karain. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 283 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: musht zani sey hamari sehat par kia asar hota hai....?

Answer: Hand Practice(kisi tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(Ref : jaded fiqhi masail aqa sistani d.b. pg no. 253 masla #462). Note is ke asraat ke liye doctor se rujoo kijye.(ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: MERA SAWAL YE HE KI ....MASTURBATION SE KYA GUNAAH HE......KYA YE GUNAAH E KABEERA HE?

Answer: G han bilkul ye gunah kabeera hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: is musht zani sa chutjara kaisay paya ja sakta hai

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). sub se shermindagi ka ehsas karen or Allah se maghfirat talab karen or khud se ehed or wada karen k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dengay, or hameshah yad rakhen k Allah apko dekh raha hai, or is gunah ko anjam deker ap shetan ka hokum man rahe hen or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahe hen, ap koshish karen k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: kya hand practice ke bad gussal kiye bagair kuch khaya piya ja sakta hai

Answer: Istimna(hand practice) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. Baghair ghusl e janabat kiay kahna peena makhrooh hay laikin agar hath or monh dho le or kulli ker le tu makhrooh nahi hay or sirif hath dho le tu bhi karahiyat kam ho jay gi. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253 + Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 2014 , maslah # , 355) ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: maulana sb bt ye hai keh may muth marta ho bhot arsay say pehlay may nay chori huwe thi lekan ab 3 4 din bad marta ho or sex films bi dekhta ho ...aap mujhay ye btaye keh may is say kis tarha bach sako ka yani isay may kis tarha choro ga ....thaanks

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram haiaur ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009), 2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) 3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 4) jo istimna karta hai wo sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo wo ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Ethiat e wajib k tor per fahash filmoo(porn movies) aur tasveeron(porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254) Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: kya mutt marna bhi haram h

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)