Question: main 15 saal ka hun magar mere money sai ghari nahi h mn handpractise bhi karta hun to sirf 1 qatra nikalta ha or wo bhi transparent or mere peshab wali jaga bhi choti ha kia mn abi baligh nai hua plzz explain ya or kia waja ha
Answer: Khud lazzati(hand practice\istemna) krna haram hai aur gunahe kabeera. Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1 , masla#30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Mjy handjob k adat ha or ma shorna cahta hun but Nhi shor pata! Ma kaxy shutkara pa sakta hun ? Plz tell me quickly!
Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa
Question: Kya masturbation karna harm h
Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa
Question: ager koi wada Allah se krta he pr wo wada kuch krna chata he per zuban se kuch ada ho jata he example: jese me kehta hn ke me hand practice ni karo ga but me ye khne ke bajy ke khe deta hn ke me hand practice kro ga to is ka be kafara he?
Answer: Gee nahi is ka koi kaffar nahi hai q k qam men irada hona zaruri hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2631 to 2632 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).
Question: mera sawal yeh h mera l boht kamzor h main 5 saal se masterbation kr raha hon koi ilaj ho to btaen plz help
Answer: Istimna ya hand pratics (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai. Aur ghuna kabira hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) aur minhajus sualeheen , aqa sistani, part no 1 , masla no:30) Jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os ko chahiye k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istighfar karay aur is k bad anday (egg) aur piyaaz kasrat se khaien.(ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54). Imaam Jafar o Sadiq (a.s) ne farmaaya, jis ka mafhoom ye hai ke ager banda apne gunah ka is terhan iqraar kar le ke is ne apne Khaliq Allah Taala ke diye gaae hokum ki nafarmaani ki hai, or is nafarmani ki waja se is ko esei pashemani ho jis ki waja se wo dubara gunah na kar sake to ALLAH TAALA bhi is ko muaaf kar ke is ki toba(istegfar) qabool kar leta hai.(Ref : usool e kafi , jild # , kitaab e emaan o kuffur , baab # 188 , riwayat # 4 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).
Question: Aslamo Alaikum mujhy musht zani ki adt hai main boht control krta hu ic k bawjood ye adt khtm nahi hoti or agr main control kr b lu to hfty main ehtalam ho jata hai ap pllzzzz ic se bchny ki koi dua btaye pllzzz
Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij yani musht zani) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462). Ap per shadi karna wajib hai. Q k agr insane shadi na krne ki waja se kisi haram kam men mubtala horaha ho to us pr wajib hai k shadi krle.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2407). Hazrat Imam Ali Raza a.s. sai marwi riwayat k mutabiq zawal k waqt 150 martaba
Question: A.o.aMushtzani karna jaiz hai ya nahi
Answer: ye haraam o gunaah e kabera main se hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)
Question: sir agar shadi se pehle insan gunah karta raha ho or shadi k bad bhi mushat zani kare to is ka kia hal hy or yeh kia gunah hy and apni wife k hips pe touch karna gunah hy kia
Answer: G musht zani haraam o guhnaah e kabera hai, or bivi ke hips ko touch kar sakte hain koi harj nahi hai. Gunah se bachne k liye Sura e Yaseen pharain or is ka pani piyen.(Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 102) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).
Question: sir ramzan ma hand sex agar ho jai to kya kuffara hy pleasa lazami or jaldi jwab dain
Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) 2) mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) 3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fail e haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hay k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 4) jaan bouch kar ramzaan ka roza torne qaza k ilawa k kaffara 2mahena musalsal roze rakhna ya 60 sherhefaqeero ko pait bar kar khana khelana ya har faqeer ko 750 gram gandum , rote wagira de. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 1632,1633) (Khuda ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 5)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: SLAAM : Mera sawaal ye hai k kya hath se maada kharij knra haram hai ya halal hai.iss k ilawa musht zani k haram hone k baray mai koi sahi hadees byan kr dien shukriya
Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) 2) mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) 3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 4)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).