Question: Mera sawaal hai k main haath se zina bahut hi zyda baar kar chukka hun but main apna gunaah khubool kar usski maafi mangna chahta hu aur chahta hun k muje paas hone ki Dua bheje
Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 2) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: mera sawal yeh he ke me hand practise ko kese choro yeh bht buri adat he nah
Answer: Ap per shadi karna wajib hai hia, or Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat karain.(Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04)(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).
Question: KYA HAAT SE ZINA KAR KE KHUSHONA GUNAAH HAI TO PHIR KYA HUKUM HAI AUR SAZA KYA HAI
Answer: Guhnaah e Kabeera main se hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009). Lehaza Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Qadir o Tawana ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).
Question: salam mera swal h k meri shadi ko 2 years ho gay hain or m last 8 month se apni biwi se door hun or roz skyp pe vedio chat kerta hun kya is surat m ager kisi din mera mani kharij kernay ko dil kery to kya m istamna ker sakta hun plz. send me email thanks
Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Salam ! sir ma ne Quran Pak pr hath rakh k kaha tha k mje Quran ki qasam ma hand job nai krunga 48 din tk mgr phr kr betha. Pls ma bht pareshan hun mje koi hal btao maafi ka
Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Sir, agar koi apna he body sa lazat la ya zana kary tu kaya hukuim, ha koi amal ya toba ka tareqa guide karday. bohat preshani ha.
Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009). 2) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 3)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) 4)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Sir mera question ye hy k jb hm penis ki safai krte hyn to penis strong ho jata hy or Musht Zani krne ka dil krta hy or hm kr lete hy lekin phr gusal ka tareka kia hy or hum nangi halat me hote hyn us waqt
Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2832 Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha khoie Masla # 2452) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: AGR men 1 week k andar andar kisi larki se mushawart ya handprectis Na karon To meri kamar men dard start ho jata h or matli mehsos hoti h. To mujhe KIA krna Chahye
Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Question: a.w Maaine 6sal tak musthjani ki par ab Maine ye chor diya he par ab mujhe kamzori mehsoos hoti he or mujhe ehtlam bhi bahoot (takriban7din me 1 martaba)hota he iskeliye mujhe koi wajifa or koi homiyopethik ya aayurwedik madicin bataye plzz
Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Question: Asslam agar koi film dek ne ke baad muth mar le to oya ghusul kar na cha he ye agar hai to ghusul ka tharekha bathein
Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. aur ye hi ghusal kafi hai namaaz perne k lie mazeed wuzu ki zarorat nahe hai(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344,389 ) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis se ghunah hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) Ethiat e wajib ki bina per fahash filmoo aur tasweeron ka dekhna haram he, agar chahae shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. Laikin ye (kaam) roze ko batil nahe karta (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 1576)(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254) Tertibi ghusal me ehtiyate lazim ki bi per ghusal ki niyat k baad phele pura sar o gardan aur baad me badan dhona zarori hai. 2) Agar koi shakhs badan ko sar se phele dho le to is k lye ghusl ka ieada (repeat) karna zarori nahe hai balke agar badan ko dobarah dho le to is ka ghusal sahe hai . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 360) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).