Question: Agar biwi ko apne maike ki yaad aaye aur usi waqt shohar ko hajat ho aur biwi se na ho...tou kya hukum hae
Answer: Agar shohar ki haq talafi ho rahi ho ya shohar biwi ko jaane ki ijazat nah day tu biwi k liay shohar ki ijazat k baghair ghar sai nikalna haram hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah#2376). Update on dated 23-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Shadi ke bad sath sona lekin 5 sal tk sex na krna mian bivi ki mrzi se
Answer: Agar shohar or zoja dono raazi hoon tu koi haraj nahi. (Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah#2382). Update on dated 23-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Is anal sex allowed?
Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna(yani anal sex) biwi k raazi na hone ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B.) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). Update on dated 11-04-2018. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Kiya apni biwi ko back ( makam pekhan) se hambestri Kar sakta ha nekah thot sakta ha ya nhi?
Answer: Agar biwi raazi ho to ye kaam kia jaa sakta hay albatta ye fail shadeed makrooh hai or is say ghusl wajib ho jata hay laikin is amal se niakh nahi toota .(Ref: http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/). Update on dated 09-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Orat k sath JAMA krny see kB tk gusal farz Nahi
Answer: Agar koe shakhs aurat se jimma(intercourse) karay aur uzo e tanasul supari ki miqdar tak ya is se ziada dhakil ho jay to chahae ye dukhool fraj(agle sharamgah) me ho ya pichle maqam me aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho dono junub ho jatay hein.(aur donoo per ghusl e janabat wajib ho hata he.) (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 348). Update on dated 16-02-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Agar kisi shadi shuda aurat ne jina kya ....kya uska nikah rahega ya tuth jayega ?
Answer: Agahrcheh yeh haram or gunah e kabira hay lekin is say nikah nahi tootay ga lekin jis say zina kia hay us per ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per us per hameshah k liay haram ho jati hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2327). Update on dated 06-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Aslam o Alikum. Agar biwi khud majboor kary k mery sath peechy sy sex karo to kia uski baat maan lani chahye or agar maan k kar b lia jay to kia nikaah tot jay ga ya nahe? Plz must reply.
Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay lekin nikah pr koi asr nhi pary ga). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 06-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Assalamualaikum.... mere nikah to 3 Saal hogaya hai aur mere shohar mujhs ruju Nahi hote aur aulad k liye bhi razi Nahi hai...Mai aisi halat me Kya Karun plzz batay.....Kya Mera talaq Lena durust hoga
Answer: 1) Shohar apni jawaan biwi sai 4 mahine sai ziaada jimaa tark nahi kar sakta.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatollah seestani edition 39 maslah no 2382). 2) Biwi k liay talaq lena jaiz hai wo shohar sai talaq ka mutaalba kar sakti hai lekin agar shohar talaq nah day tu aurat hakim e shara say ruju karay tu hakim e shara halaat ko madd e nazar rakhte hoe talaq k seeghay jaari kar day ga.(Ref:Jadeed fiqhi masail ayatollah seestani mafhoom e masla 428 page 214). Update on dated 18-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Aoa, I just wanted to ask if it is allowed for husband to kiss his wife\'s ass whole. Thanking in advance.
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 13-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Sir merry shohar nain muj sy chup k doosri shadi kr rakhi ha or meray 2 Bachay b hain but wo hmara koi haq adaa nikrtay naan nafqa etc is soorat main Islam main Kia hukam ha?
Answer: Jis aurat ka kharch os ke shauhar ke zimme ho aur shauhar ose kharch na de to wo apna kharch shauhar ki ijaazat ke baghair os ke maal se le sakti hai. Aur agar na le sakti ho aur majboor ho keh apni m’ash ka khud bandobast kare aur shikayat karne ke liay haakim sahar’a tak os ki rasayee na ho takhe wo os ke shauhar ko kharch dene par majboor kare to jis waqt wo apni m’ash ka bandobast karne mein masshghuul ho os waqt shauhar ki ita’at os par waajib nahin hai.Ref: (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #1433). Update on dated 16-07-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).