QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Ager kesi ki biwi ka kesi or mard sy na jaiz taloq bn jay to phr shohar ko kia krna chahyeh

Answer: Agar koi shohar dar aurat zina kare to ahtiyat wajib ki bina par woh par hamesha keh liay haram ho jati hai lekin shohar par haram nahi hoti aur agar toba wa istaghfar na kare aur apne amal par baqi rahe yani zina kari tark na kare to behtar yeh hai keh us ka shohar use talaq de de lekin shohar ko chaiye keh uska meher bhi day. (Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani, Tauzeeh Ul Masail 42 edition, Maslah no 2367). [Updated on 04-Sep-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar mian biwi se naraz ho ker os ke sath humbistri chor dey tu kitnay arsay baad nikah fasakh ho Jata hai.

Answer: jee nahi is se nikah faskh nahi hota albatta mard ke liay jaiz nahi hai keh woh apni jawan biwi se chaar mah se ziada muddat tak mujamiat na kare.(Ref: Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Abul Qasim e Khoie,Tauzeeh Ul Masail, Masala no # 2389,2427). [Updated on 04-Sep-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Main hamla hon or shohar k pas jany ko dil ni karta to kia me guhagar hon?

Answer: zaroori hai jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatein hasil karna chahe to uski khuwaish pori kare aur sharee uzur ke beghair shohar ko humbistri se na roke. (Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani, Tauzeeh ul masail, Masala # 2376) Haamilah (pregnant) biwi say hambistari (Itercourse) kerna haram nahi hay.Mustahab hay k biwi say wuzu ker k hambistari ki jaay waqt khaas taur per jab wo haamilah ho.Biwi say halat e haiz(period) or nifaas main hambistari kerna haraam hay. Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Ayatullah Sistani (d.b.),maslah #2382). (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen,part#3,maslah#5,email Received from Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b),dated 13-07-10,Tauzee hul masail, maslah#448,504). Note: Doran e hamal jima kertay waqt is baat ka zaroor khiyaal rakha jay k aap jima k waqt bivi k pait per apnay jism ka wazan nah daalain, is say hamal ko nuqsaan pohanch sakta hay.aam taur per doctor hazraat 8th mahinay say jima kernay say mana kertay hain.laikin ye her aurat ki jismani kaifiyaat or taqat per muhasir (depend) hota hay.hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or hamal ko nuqsan pohchanay wali chizoo say perhaiz karain [Updated on 01-Sep-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: As Salamu Alykum. Meri biwi kisi or ladke se pregnant hui 2 martaba. Kya wo ab bhi mere nikah me hai ?

Answer: jee ab bhi woh apke nikah me hai. (Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani, Tauzeeh Ul Masail, Masala No # 2367 ). [Updated on 31-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar call pa sex krna s dono afrad free o jyn to kya gussal lazam ha?

Answer: na-mehram se phone per is tarah ki guftugu kerna haram hai Q k is surat men gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojud hai, chahe ap apas men shadi ka irada hi Q nah rakhte hon, (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Bk # Nigah or Libaas, Ed # 01,Mafhoom e Sawal # 84, Pg # 60) 1-Do cheezo i) jima(intercourse) or ii) mani(semen) k kharij(nikalnay say) say insaan (per namaaz perhne k lie ghusal janabat wajib ) hojata hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #344). 2-Wo ratubat jo aurat say shehwat k saath Khaarij hoti hay Agar is Hadd tak ho kay usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aalooda kar day , jo aam tor par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intihaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga.ise tara ehteyaat e waajib ki bina per agar hijaan e shewat ki inteha tak nah bhi pouche magar paani itna ziyaada ho jitna puri razamandi k mouqe per kharij hota hai to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345) [Updated on 31-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Bivi Razi Ho Anal sex K Liye r Kabhi Kabaar Bivi Khud B Bolti Hai Peche se Karne Ko To Kya Is surat Mai haraam Hai Ya Gunah Milta Hai Sir Plzz bataen ???

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). [Updated on 31-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kia begum ko peechay sy krsakty hain haiz ki soorat mai or kia begum ki ass ko lick krsakty hain jb woh haiz k akhri dinun mai ho

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaey. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf.org). [Updated on 26-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Biwi par shouhar ke kya kya haqooq hain plz explain kar den wsalam

Answer: shohar ka biwi par yeh haq hai keh woh usko humbistri aur degar jinsi lazzaat ke liay mana na kare siway uzur e sharee ke jaise haiz, aur yeh keh woh aurat shohar ki ijazat ke beghair kisi bhi surat me ghar se bahar na nikle. (Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani, masla no 337, minhaj us saliheen part 3). [Updated on 23-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Miya apne bivi se sex mai games khail sakta hai zyda enjoy k liye, for example doctor patient, boss sacetry, saali jeji,bhabi dever etc Sex mai hon gay tu miya bivi hi,enjoy k liye,roz aik hi tarekay se banda ukta jata hai

Answer: Miya Biwi aik dosre ke liay mehram hai , lekin ghair maamooli lazzaton ke liay ahtiyat e wajib ki bina par dono ka razi hona lazmi hai. (Ref: Aayat-ul-Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani , Web Address: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/ ). [Updated on 22-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Asslam o Alaikum sir Sir mein pochna chhta ho k... Kya orat KY pichly hisy my ungli dalna jaiz hai? Please ans

Answer: Wa Alaikum Salam, Miya Biwi ek dosre ke liay pori tarah mehram hai, lekin ghair maamoli lazzaton ke liay ahtiyat e wajib ki bina par dono ka razi hona zaroori hai. (Ref : Ayat ul Allah Sayyid Ali Hussaini Seestani, Web Address: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/ ). [Updated on 22-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]