Question: Salam Kiya biwi k hip hole main penis dal kr mani cbor sktay hai? Kiya larki k main main mani kharij ho gaye magar halaq c neechay na gae to koi masla nahi?
Answer: Anal sex biwi k raazi na hone ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B.) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). 2) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). [Updated on 04-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Shadi ko 1 saal hogaya ho aur apas mein miyan bivi jesa koi rishta na ho to kya nikkah qaim rehta hai?
Answer: Nikah tou qaim rahay ga. albatta shohar k liye laazim hai k jawaan biwi sai 4 mahine sai ziada humbistri tark na karay han agar dono raazi ho tou koi maslah nahi. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullh seestani, edition 41, maslah #2382). [Updated on 01-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: sosarr ka bahu se zina ho gaya to kia wo bivi apnee soher per halal kasee ho gi ya pher se nikah karna ho ga ya helala ho ga
Answer: shohar daar aurat agar zina kare tu biwi shohar per haraam nahe hote .yani indono miah ,biwi ka nikah baaqi rehta hay inhe dobara nikah karne ki zarorat nahe. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeeh e ul masail, Masla #2367). [Updated on 04-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Kia shadi sy pehly ishq krna ghalt h agr apko pata k os sy hi shadi honi??
Answer: Jins-e-mutazad se dosti ka is had tak izhaar karna k us se kaha jaye k mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz nahin hai, chahe bad me us shadi hi Q na karni ho. Q k gunah men mubtala hone ka khoaf mojood hai, magr ye hai k islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai aur is Atibar se aap ziyada se ziyada us ke ghar rishte ka pegham bhej sakte hain. Khuda apko gunah men mubtala hone se mohfooz rakhe. (Ref: Nigah or Libaas 10 maraje kiram k fatwon k mutabiq 1st Eddition, Page #69, Ques #106) [Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Asalam o alaikum Mera sawal hai k mian biwi pehli raat jima(humbistri) krte hai tu mard biwi k oper ah k osy dhanp leta hai tu kya aise mein b koi kapra wagera dono ko oper dalna zarori hai?
Answer: Zaroori nahin hai. Lekin Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain k. 1. berhana(naked) halat main jima karna, 2. jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar karna, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt jima karna, 4. chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima karna, 5. fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay jima karna, 6. islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh main jima karna, siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main, 7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima karna, 8. qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kar jima karna, 9. soraj or chaand gerhan ke waqt jima karna, 10. ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima karna, 11. zawaal e aaftab ke waaqt jima karna, siwaay jumayraat k din k, 12. jima k doraan baat karna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say parhaiz karna behtar hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), minha jus saliheen Part#3, maslah #5) [Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mera dosra sawal hai k hamain islamic tareqa sy humbistri kaise krni chaiye kya first night main aik baar e jima ki jaye,ya aik se zeda baar b kar skte hain,first night k bhd kitne din tak humbistri nhi krni chaiye jawab inayat farma dain shukria
Answer: 1: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) 2: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah parhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho, or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain k 1. soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona, 2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k, 3. guroob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4. chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5. fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6. islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main, 7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8. qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9. berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10. ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena, 12. jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say parhaiz karna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #5) [Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Aslam ul alikium, sir ma ganda kamoo ma passa howa tha to ab ma na wo kam chor diya ha. Sir mera lun bohat chota aur patla ha is sa koi masali to nahi hoo ga . Aur agar ho ga to khus asha sa bata da jo ap ki behtar ma asha ha. Sukriya
Answer: 1: Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad ziyada se ziyada anday(egg) aur piyaz khaye. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kartay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan mardon main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k mardon k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khusosiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba (Large) or seedha (straight), 2- Mota (thick) ho, 3- Sakht (hard) ho. Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem mardon ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiye k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharamgah) ko mutaharrik kar sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas (sensitive) sharamgah ka bahir ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote barhe hone se koe faraq nahin parta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bara hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k terha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahin parhta Q k wo sharamgah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahin hota, Q k aurat ki sharamgah ke naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharamgah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia, muallif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi, wakeel e ayatullah muntazari, part #1, pg #110-111 ). (Note: Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jayengi ) [Updated on 03-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Janab assalam alaikum Subah fajr ki namaz pad kar apni wife ke sath sex kr sakte h?
Answer: Jee han, jaiz hai. lekin Fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay biwi ke sath jima(intercourse) karna makrooh hai, (yani behtar hai ke is parhaiz kiya jaye). (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), minhaj us saliheen Part #3, maslah #5) [Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: حاملہ عورت کی شرمگاہ چاٹنا وہ بھی عورت کی رضا مندگی سے کیا ایسا کرنا جائز ہے کے نہیں؟؟
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaye. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf .org) [Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: مرد اگر اپنی حاملہ بیوی کی شرم گاہ چاٹ لے تو اس سے بچے پر اثر ہوتا ہے کیا اور اگر کفارہ کرنا ہو تو کیا کرے؟
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaye. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf .org) (Note: Is se bache par koi asar nahin hota aur na hi koi kaffara hoga ). [Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]