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Question: Keya biwi ke sath video call main dono nanga ho ke bat Kar sakte hain Agar biwi razi ho Aur sohar dusre desh main hain . Do salun se unlogun ki mulaqat nhi hui ho 2. Biwi se kitne dur rahne ki ezazat hai Hadees main .

Answer: 1: Jee han, Shohar aur biwi aik dosre ko behrna(naked) halat men dekh sakte hain aur sex(fahash) ki batain bhi kar sakte hen. 2: Shohar k liye laazim hai k jawan biwi sai 4 mahine sai ziaada humbistri tark na karay lekin agar dono raazi ho tou koi maslah nahin hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus salaheen part #3, Mafhoom e maslah #5) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeeh ul masail edition #42, maslah 2382). [Updated on 26-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Nikkah k bad kitne din tk sex karna zorori hai?

Answer: 1: Shohar ko biwi k sath 5 awqat mai hambistri karna haram hai. 1. Haiz ki halat mai jima karna. 2. Nifas yani jab aurat ko bacha paida honay k baad 10 din tak khoon aata hai os halat mai jima karna. 3. Rozay ki halat mai jima karna. 4. Etikaaf ki halat mai jima karna. 5. Hajj ka Ehraam bandhnay k baad jima karna. 2: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah #67). 3: Biwi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamila ho, or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1. Soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona. 2. Zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k. 3. Guroob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona. 4. Chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena. 5. Fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay. 6. Islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main. 7. Islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna. 8. Qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna. 9. Berhana(naked) halat main jima kerna. 10. Ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna. 11. Jima k waqt biwi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena. 12. Jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen Part #3, Maslah #5) (Note: Upar bataye gaye haram aur makrroh maqamat ke elawa saal men kabhi bhi Jima(Intercourse) kia jasakta hai ). [Updated on 23-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Rukhsati k time Shadi wale din agar periods ho Jayein to kya karein

Answer: Halat e haiz(Periods) main Jima(intercourse) karna mard aur aurat dono k liye haram hai. laikin jima k ilawa baqi lazzat maslan bos-o-kinar(kissing wagera) karna jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeeh ul Masail, Edition #42, Maslah #448,451) (Note: Biwi ko chahiye ke wo shohar ko is masle se agah kare. Q is halat men Jima(intercourse) karna shohar aur biwi dono ke liye haram hai ). [Updated on 23-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalam Alaikum. Sir meri shadi ko 2 month hue hain me apni wife ki breast Ko suck karta hun Uska koi masla to nahi hai ya sex karte time me apna wo uski breast par ghumata hun is se Nikkah par Koi asar parta hai to bataiye plzz

Answer: 1: Shohar biwi ke breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay, laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn main doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jaye. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) 2: Shohar or biwi ke liay jaiz hai ke wo aik dosray ke jism ke tamaam hisso(parts of body) ko jism ke kisi bhi hissay(part) say chhoo(touch) saktay hain ye chhoona chaahay lazzat ke iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat ke, jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen, Part #3, Edition #1439, Maslah #11). [Updated on 23-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Aslam o Alikum Agr shohar k mouth (mue) mai bivi ka chotta bishab jay halaq se agy ni gya is ka kya hukam he, sir

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). [Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Asalam o alakium I just mired a month ago when I do sex with my wife my there is nothing comes mani out from my side But my lora fully stand with power during sex but problium it's no discharge any thing comes out

Answer: Tab bhi Aap dono par gusl e janabat wajib ho jaye ga. Q ke Agar koi shakhs aurat se jimma(intercourse) kare or uzw e tanasul supari ki miqdar tak ya is se ziyada dhakil ho jay to chahe ye dkhool farj(ugli sharamgah) me ho ya pichlay maqam me aur chahe wo baligh ho ya na baligh aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho dono junub ho jatay hein. aur dono per ghusl e janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail, edition #42, maslah #348) [Updated on 23-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Aslawalekym Me Aapse Ye Sawal karna Chahta Hun ki Kya Apni Sarmgah Ki Size kitni hoti he..... Agar 4/5Inch ki ho to kya Ye size Kam Hai..... Plz mere ko Jarur repaly Dena

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabar afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan mardon main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k mardon k aala e tanasul(penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zaroori hain: 1-Lamba(Large) or seedha(straight) ho. 2-Mota(thick) ho. 3-Sakht(hard) ho. Or aam tabeeb(doctors) bhi yehi taleem mardon ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul(penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani aurat sharamgah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharamgah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Lihaza penis k chote bare hone se koe faraq nahin parhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bara hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k terha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahin parhta Q k wo sharamgah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahin hota, Q k aurat ki sharamgah k naram or lachak daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne(Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zaroori he k aurat ki sharamgah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Lihaza aise tabeebon(doctors) se bacha jaay}. (Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia, muallif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi, wakeel e ayatullah muntazari, part#1, pg #110-111 ). Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hain laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k ye haram hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 ) [Updated on 23-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalam o alikum main janana chata hn kay agar wife apny shohar ko os ki khawaish par sex na day sirf jab os ka dil karay tab sex karay tu shohar kia karay

Answer: (Note: Aap apni biwi ko in sharaei masail se agah karen) ke 1. Biwi k liye laazim hai k shohar ki ijaazat k baghair ghar sai na nikle, aur shohar jitne arsay k liye ijaazat de us hisaab sai reh sakti hai is ke elawa nahin reh sakti. 2. Biwi k liay zaroori hai k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat (sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or sharaei uzr (any Islamic reason, i.e : in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say na rokay. 3. Biwi k hoqooq mai sai hai k mard isay aziat aur takleef na punhchaye aur kisi sharaei wajah k baghair is k sath sakhti aur tarsh royei sai pesh na aaye. 4. Biwi ki rihaish(housing), giza(fooding), libaas(clothing) aur zindagi ke baqi zaroriyaat ka intezaam shohar par wajib hai. 5. Agar biwi humbistri aur jinsi lazzaton k silsile mai shohar ka saath na day kar us ki khuwaish poori na karay tou biwi k roti, kapray aur makaan ka shohar zimedaar nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani, Tauzeeh ul masail, edition #42, maslah #2376,2377). Hadees manqool hai jis main me aik orat ne kaha keh ya rasool allah shohar ka haq zoja per kya hai yani bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain farmaya lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare kisi waqt or kisi haal main us ki nafarmaani na kare jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho phir us orat ne arz ki ya rasool allah mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai farmaya baap ka aurat ne arz kia, orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai farmaya shohar ka, aurat ne arz kia keh shohar per mera haq utna nahi hai jitna mere per shohar ka hai, farmaya nahi or aik doosri hadees manqool hai keh aurat per farz hai ke kisi raat is halat main na soay keh us ka sohar us se naraz ho us aurat ne arz kiya ya rasool allah chahe us orat k shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho farmaya haan chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho (Ref: Tehzib ul islaam baab 4 topic hoqooq e zojain pg#140, 141). [Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Suhag rat manane ka sahi tariqa kaya hai

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt 1. mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, 2. baa wuzu hon jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh(na-pasandeedah) hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona, 2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4. chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5. 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6. 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8. qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9. berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10. ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11. jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: (Allahumma alaa kitaabeka tazawwajtuha, wa fee amanatika akhaztuha, wa bekalematekas tahlalto farjaha, fa in qazaita lee fee rahmeha shay an fajalhoo musliman sawiyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkash shaitan). (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4 , 5). [Updated on 25-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Biwi agar uska doodh pilane ke liye raji ho toh kya pi sakte hai

Answer: Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). [Updated on 25-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]