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Question: Assalam o allaikum! mere shohar mjhse sex krte hn par direct bs sex tb mjhe unka apne pas ana is trhan bura lgta h aur men satisfied nh hoti....mjhe kiya krna chahiye....

Answer: Mustahabaat e jima main ye bhi milta hay ke koi bhi shakhs apni aurat se fauran jima nah karay balkeh pehlay orgasm yani masaas chaati, raan waghaira ko haath se masalna, sehlana, cheerh, chaarh or hansi mazaaq karay is baat ko maahireen e jinsiyaat ne bhi tasleem kia hay in ki nazar main fauran jima karne par merd ki mani jaldi se kharij ho jane ki soorat main mard ki khahish to poori ho jati hay laikin aurat ki khahish pori nahin ho paati jis ki wajah se aurat apne merd se nafrat kerne lagti hay shayad isi liay deen e fitrat mazhab e islam ne orgasm yani masaas, bosah baazi(kissing), cherh chaarh, hansi mazaaq, piyaar o muhabbat ki batain karne ko mustahab qaraar diya takeh aurat mazkorah amal se jima ke liye poori tarah aamadah ho jaay or jab is se jima kiya jaaye to wo bhi mard ki tarah se poori tarah jinsi tasalli hasil kar sakay shayad isi liay Rasool khuda(s.a.w.w) ne irshad fermaya k jo shakhs apni aurat se jima karay wo murgh (cock) ki tarah os ke paas nah jaaye balkeh pehlay masaas, orgasm or dast baazi badan pe haath phairna or khush tabee karay is k baad jima karay. {ref: tehzibul islam, pg #109}. or shayad yehi wajah hay k jis waqt imam jaffer sadiq a s se kisi ne deryaaft kia k agar koe shakhs haath ya ungli se apni zauja ya kaneez ki sharamgaah k saath baazi karay (playing) tu kaisa hay aap (a.s) ne fermaya khuch muzaiqa nahin (no problem) laikin ajzaay badan (parts of body) k alawa or koe cheez is maqam main dakhil nah karay, {ref: tehzibul islam, pg #231}. yani aurat ko jima k liay pori terah aamada kerne yani garam kerne k liay merd aurat ki sharamgaah main ungli ya jism k kisi bhi uzu (part) se cherh charh ker sakta hay takeh aurat or merd dono ko mukammal jinsi kaif o lazzat hasil ho sakay. (Ref: Islam or jinsiyaat, muallif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg #145,146). 3: Jima se pehlay masaas (orgasm) k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k muzil hone discharge k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baitabana harakaat karay merd se chumtay liptay apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker dabaay tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dukhool (inserting of penis) or ikhraaj (emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul penis ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah ho jaaye phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag ho jaay. (Ref islam or jinsiyaat, muallif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg #151,152). [Updated on 19-Nov-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalamo alaekum Aagha sahab agar bivi k mu me shohar ki ratoo at chali jay to kesa he

Answer: 1: Shohar or Biwi aik dosre ke liye poori tarah se mehram (halal) hain lekin ghair mamoli lazzatun ke liye ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par biwi ka razi hona lazim hay. 2: Oral sex yani aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye ke sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. lekin agar halaq me chali jaye to halaq najis ho jaye ga. 3: Agar monh ka androni hissa najis ho jaey tu nijasat k door ho janay se monh paak ho jaata hay or paani se paak karne ki bhi zarorat nahin hoti. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul Masail, Aayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42, before maslah #2328. + sistani.org urdu, chapter humbistri, sawal #1. + Istiftaat I-2,I-15. Tauzeeh ul masail jaame, Edition #1435 hijri, Mafhoom e Maslah #233). [Updated on 22-Nov-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalamo alaekum Aagha sahab agar bivi k mu me shohar ki ratoo at chali jay to kesa he

Answer: 1: Shohar or Biwi aik dosre ke liye poori tarah se mehram (halal) hain lekin ghair mamoli lazzatun ke liye ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par biwi ka razi hona lazim hay. 2: Oral sex yani aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye ke sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. lekin agar halaq me chali jaye to halaq najis ho jaye ga. 3: Agar monh ka androni hissa najis ho jaey tu nijasat k door ho janay se monh paak ho jaata hay or paani se paak karne ki bhi zarorat nahin hoti. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul Masail, Aayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42, before maslah #2328. + sistani.org urdu, chapter humbistri, sawal #1. + Istiftaat I-2,I-15. Tauzeeh ul masail jaame, Edition #1435 hijri, Mafhoom e Maslah #233). [Updated on 22-Nov-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalamo alaekum Agha agar bivi k mu me Shohar ki rutoobat chali jay to kesa he

Answer: Is sawal ka jawab de diya gaya hai. [Updated on 22-Nov-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar shuhar sirf hip main sex kry to kya aurat par ghusal wajib hoga?

Answer: Is sawal ka jawab de diya gaya hai. [Updated on 05-Dec-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Salam Mara sawal ye hai k agr shohar apni bivi k pas na jay or na e us sy kisi qisam ka shari haq na dy pas rahny k bawajood 1 sal tak relation na rakhy to us ki bivi ko kia karna chahia

Answer: 1: Shohar apni jawaan biwi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) ke liye hambistari (intercourse) tark nahin kar sakta (yani 4 mahine tak hambistri ka tark karna shohar ke liye haram hai) magar ye ke (except) hambistari us ke liye nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab (reason) ho ya uski biwi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat ke liay hambistari tark karnay par raazi ho ya nikah kartay waqt nikah ke zimn (agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark karnay ki shart rakhi gayei ho. 2: Agar shohar biwi ke izdawaji huqooq ki adaaigi se inkaar kare aur Talaq dainay par bhi amaada nah ho aur haakim shara( mujtahid) ki taraf se un dono mein se kisi aik baat par tayyar nah hon to zauja, Talaq ka mutalba kar sakti hai aur haakim shara is ka Sigha e Talaq jari kar sakta hai. is ke alawa is surat mein bhi haakim shara is ka Sigha e Talaq jari kar sakta hai, Jab shohar, biwi se kinara kash ho jaye is tarah ke na wo shohar daar rahay or nah mukammal azaad. laikin jahaan shohar biwi ki jinsi(sex) khahish ko mukammal taur par poora nah karta ho jis se us ka gunah ke murtakib honay ka khatra ho, to is soorat main agarchah wajib yahi hay ke shohar biwi ki khahish poori karay ya us ke talaq ke mutaalbay ko poora karay. lekin agar shohor aisa nah karay to biwi ko sabr or intezaar karna chahiye. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42, Maslah #2382. + Jadeed Fiqhi masail, maslah #428). [Updated on 07-Dec-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalamualaikum sir shadi ki phli rat tell laga kar krna chaiye ya bina tell lagay g sir or Kitni bar krna chaiye sex phli rat ko g sir

Answer: Aap ki apni marzi par mauqoof hai ke chahen to oil istemal karen ya chahen to na karen, isi tarah aap jitni baar Jima/Humbistri karen aap ki marzi. Albatta Jima/Humbistri ke waqt chand kaam mustahab hain: 1. Biwi se Jima (intercourse) ke waqt mustahab hai ke bismillah parhi jaye. 2. Jima ke waqt Baa wuzu hon. 3. Khaas taur par us waqt wuzu karna mustahab hai jab biwi haamila ho. Jima/Humbistri ke waqt chand kaam makrooh hain: 1. Sooraj or chaand gerhan ka hona. 2. Zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat ke din ke. 3. Guroob e aaftaab ke waqt ka hona. 4. Chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kana. 5. Fajar ke baad sooraj nikalne se pehle. 6. Islami mahine ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main. 7. Islami mahine ki darmiyani or aakri taarikh main jima karna. 8. Qible ki taraf rukh ya pusht karna. 9. Berhana (naked) halat main jima karna. 10. Ehtilaam ke baad baghair wuzu kiye jima karna. 11. Jima ke waqt biwi ki sharamghah ko dekhna. (Ref: Minhaj us Saleheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #3, maslah #5). [Updated on 05-Dec-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Auart ka shadi ke bd apne ghar walun ko pesa dena sahi hai ? shohar or bachun ka zada haq hai us per? ladki ke maa baap shadi ke bd apni beti ki kamai ke haqdar hote?

Answer: 1: Agar aurat un paison ka malik hai yani wo paise un ki milkiyat me hain to aurat ki marzi hai ka jise chahe apne paise day jise chahe nah day ya chahe to kisi ko bhi na day. 2: Shohar aur bachon par ka koi haq nahin hai ulta shohar par biwi aur bachon ka naan o nafaqa (roti, libas, gha) ya deegar zindagi ki zarooriyaat ada karna wajib hai. 3: Agar maan, baap gareeb hain to asal to baitay (son) par zaroori hai ke waldain se naiki kare yani agar wo zaroorat mand hon to in ke liye infaaq (karcha) kare aur in ki zaroriyaat e zindagi ko poora kare aur insani fitrat aur mizaaj ke taqazon ke mutabiq in ki zindagi se mutaliq mamool ki farmaish ko bhi poora kare. Aisi farmaishaat jin ko thukrana in ke ahsaanaat ke muqable me napasadeedah samjha jata hai. albata ye farmaishaat waldain ki qowat o zuaf ke mutabiq muktalif ho sakti hain. Lekin agar baita waldain par infaaq (karcha) nah kare ya nah kar sakta ho aur in ki zaroriyaat e zindagi ko poora nah kare ya nah kar sakta ho to agar Baiti (daughter) kar sakti ho to Baiti par apne waaldain ka karcha dena Ehteyaat e wajib ki bina par zaroori hay. isi tarah Baitay aur Baiti par zaroori hai ke waldain ke sath ahsaan karen aur in ka ehteraam karen aur in ke sath husne sulook karen. yani in se apne qaul o fail ke zariye bura sulooq na karen. agarche wo is par zulm kar rahe hon. (Ref: Minhaaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #2, edition #1443 hij, mafhoom e maslah #1320. + https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01744/ + https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01882/ ). + Jadeed fiqhi masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), ques #345,350, pg #211,214, edition #5. + Ahkaam e deen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), ke fatwe ke mutabiq, pg #256). [Updated on 12-Dec-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalam_o_alaikum Kya husband Apni wife se back_side lazat le sakhta h ?

Answer: Biwi ke peechay ke maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari karna biwi ke raazi nah hone ki surat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina par Haram hay, aur agar biwi raazi ho to jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). [Updated on 08-Dec-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Hmari shadi ko 1 saal ho gya h..or mn kae dfa apni biwi ki sharamgah (vagina) ko chom leta h...hm dono ko..ye acha lgta h. Kya hmyn iss sy gunah hota h?

Answer: 1: Shohar or Biwi aik dosre ke liye poori tarah se mehram (halal) hain lekin ghair mamoli lazzatun ke liye ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par biwi ka raazi hona lazim hai. 2: Oral sex yani aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye ke sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. lekin agar halaq me chali jaye to halaq najis ho jaye ga. 3: Agar monh ka androni hissa najis ho jaye to nijasat ke door ho jane se monh paak ho jaata hay or paani se paak karne ki bhi zarorat nahin hoti. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul Masail, Aayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42, before maslah #2328. + sistani.org urdu, chapter humbistri, sawal #1. + Istiftaat I-2,I-15. Tauzeeh ul masail jaame, Edition #1435 hijri, Mafhoom e Maslah #233). [Updated on 19-Dec-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]