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Question: Salam. I am not able to satisfy my wife sex needs as my timings are too short, please advise any other way so that she can satisfy her self. We have 2 children and we are unable to seperate. My wife age is 30 and my age is 35

Answer: 1: Shohar aur biwi aik dusre ke badan ke kisi bhi hissay ko badan ke kisi bhi hissay se mass (touch) kar sakhte hain lekin jism ke hissay ke alawa koi aur cheez sharamghah main ehtiyaat ki bina par dakhil nahin kar sakta or biwi ki sharamghah me ungli daal kar mani nikaalna jaiz hay. yani aap apni biwi ki jinsi feelings ko poora karne ke liye badan ke kisi bhi hissay (parts of body) ko istemal kar sakte hain. 2: shohar apni biwi se fauran jima nah kare balkeh pehle orgasm yani masaas chaati raan waghaira ko haath se masalna sehlana cheerh chaarh or hansi mazaaq kare is baat ko maahireen e jinsiyaat ne bhi tasleem kiya hai aur un ki nazar main fauran jima karne par mard ki mani jaldi se kharij ho jane ki surat me mard ki khahish to poori ho jati hai lekin aurat ki khahish poori nahin ho pati jis ki wajah se aurat apne mard se nafrat karne lagti hai shayad isi liye deen e fitrat mazhab e islam ne orgasm yani masaas bosah baazi kissing cherh chaarh hansi mazaaq piyaar o muhabbat ki batain karne ko mustahab qaraar diya takeh aurat mazkorah amal se jima ke liye poori tarah aamadah ho jaaye or jab is se jima kiya jaaye to wo bhi mard ki tarah se poori tarah jinsi tasalli hasil kar sake, shayad isi liye Rasool khuda(s.a.w.w) ne irshad farmaya ke jo shakhs apni aurat se jima kare wo murgh (cock) ki tarah us ke paas nah jaaye balkeh pehle masaas (orgasm) or dast baazi badan pe haath phairna or khush tabee karay is k baad jima karay. {ref: tehzibul islam, pg #109}. or shayad yehi wajah hai ke jis waqt Imam Jaffar Sadiq(a.s) se kisi ne daryaaft kiya ke agar koi shaks haath ya ungli se apni zauja ya kaneez ki sharamghah ke saath baazi karay (playing) to kaisa hai Aap(a.s) ne farmaya khuch mozaiqa nahin (no problem) lekin ajzaaye badan (parts of body) ke alawa or koi cheez is maqam main dakhil nah karay, {ref: tehzibul islam, pg #231}. yani aurat ko jima ke liye poori tarah aamada karne yani garam karne ke liye mard, aurat ki sharamghah main ungli ya jism ke kisi bhi uzu (part) se cherh charh kar sakta hai takeh aurat or mard dono ko mukammal jinsi lazzat hasil ho sake. 3: Jima se pehle masaas (orgasm) ke baad jab jima shuru kiya jaaye to jab jima ke dauran aurat ke muzil hone (discharge) ke bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat kare mard se chumte, lipte, apne hathon ya taangon se mard ko kas kar dabaaye, tab mard bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool (inserting of penis) or ikhraaj (emiting of penis) kar ke farigh ho jaaye agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haathon ya taangon se mard ko kas ke daba rahi ho takeh mard alag nah ho to mard ko chahiye ke is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul (penis) ko aurat ki sahramghah se baher nah nikaale jab tak ke aurat munzil nah ho jaaye phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal kar mard aahistagi se aurat se alag ho jaaye. (Ref: Jadeed Fiqhi Masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Maslah #406, pg #236. + Tauzeeh ul Masail Jaame, Part #4, Maslah #261). (Ref: Islam or jinsiyaat, muallif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg #145,146) (Ref islam or jinsiyaat, muallif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg #151). (Note: Is marz ka ilaaj maujood hai, aap is Medicine ka istimal karen inshallah is se faaida milega. jinsi ilaj ke liye is link per click karain: johar homeo care – Johar Homeo Clinic https://joharhomeoclinic.com/johar-homeo-care/ ). [Updated on 30-May-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kiya bivi k Sath 4 month tak sex karna zroori Hy ya nahi

Answer: Jee han, shohar apni jawaan biwi se chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark nahin kar sakta (yani chaar mahinon me aik baar hambistri karna wajib hai agar nahin kare ga to wo gunahgar hoga) magar ye ke hambistari karna biwi ke liye nuqsandeh ya buhut ziyada takleef ka sabab ho ya us ki biwi khud chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark karne par raazi ho ya shadi karte waqt nikah ke zimin mein chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark karne ki shart rakhi gayei ho. Aur is hukum mein ehtayat-e-waajib ki bina par shohar ke maujood hone ya musaafir hone mein koi farq nahin hai is liye ehtayat-e-waajib ki bina par ye jaiz nahin ke ghair zaroori safar ko baghair kisi uzr ya aurat ki razamandi ke baghair chaar maah se ziyada tool diya jaay. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42, Maslah #2382). [Updated on 31-May-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kiya bivi k Sath 4 month sex karna zroori Hy

Answer: Jee han, shohar apni jawaan biwi se chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark nahin kar sakta (yani chaar mahinon me aik baar hambistri karna wajib hai agar nahin kare ga to wo gunahgar hoga) magar ye ke hambistari karna biwi ke liye nuqsandeh ya buhut ziyada takleef ka sabab ho ya us ki biwi khud chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark karne par raazi ho ya shadi karte waqt nikah ke zimin mein chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark karne ki shart rakhi gayei ho. Aur is hukum mein ehtayat-e-waajib ki bina par shohar ke maujood hone ya musaafir hone mein koi farq nahin hai is liye ehtayat-e-waajib ki bina par ye jaiz nahin ke ghair zaroori safar ko baghair kisi uzr ya aurat ki razamandi ke baghair chaar maah se ziyada tool diya jaay. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42, Maslah #2382). [Updated on 31-May-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Kya orat idat k doran apny marhom shohar ki picture dykh skti hy...??

Answer: Jee han, dekh sakti hai. (Ref: Tauzeh ul Masail Jaame, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #4, maslah #13). [Updated on 02-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Pragnansi k bd hanmbistri sathi lga k karni chaya

Answer: Yeh zaroori nahin hai. (Ref: Jadeed fiqhi masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), mafhoom e maslah #465). [Updated on 02-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: السلام علیکم اگر شوہر مقروض ہو بیوی کا عمرہ پر جانا کیسا ہے

Answer: Phir bhi jaa sakti hai Q ke biwi ke liye apne shohar ka qarza utarna wajib nahin hai. balke ulta shohar par wajib hai ke biwi ke zindagi ke akhraajaat (naan o nafaqa) ada kare chahe biwi maaldar hi Q na ho. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2376). [Updated on 03-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar sohar apni bv ka doodh Peele to kya krna chahiye

Answer: Agar galati se pee liya hai to ghunah nahin hai, lekin Ehtiyaat e wajib ye hai ke jan boojh kar nah piya jaaye, aur agar jan boojh piya hai to tauba karni chahiye lekin is ka kaffara nahin. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). [Updated on 05-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mery shohar (husband) baanjh hen mtlb bacha paida nahi kr sakty tw agar hum ivf k through mery dewsr ( husband k bhai ) k sperms use kren bacha paida krny k lie tw kya ye jaiz hy?? R paida hony wala bcha jaiz hoga ya nhi??

Answer: Shohar ki mani ke alawa aurat ka hammila hona jaiz nahin hai. Haan, aurat ka tauleed shuda maadah kisi dusri aurat ke rehem main daalna jaiz hai. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Jadeed masael, Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #65,67). [Updated on 06-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar biwi pehly din s hi shohar k jinsi haqooq adha nhn krti r shohar uska ilaj b krwae mgr orat medication p b na jae zid rkhy k bs koi b jinsi taluq qaim nhn ho skta, blky is kam me unintrested ho to.... wo mardh kia kry?????

Answer: (Note: aap khud ya kisi ko keh kar apni biwi ko zel me diye hue masle ki taraf tawajju delayen uar Deen par Amal karne ka keh sakte hai). 1: Jis aurat ka daimi (hamesha ka) nikah ho jaye us ke liye haram hai ke shohar ki ijazat ke bagair ghar se bahir nikle, chahe iska nikalna shohar ke haq ke manafi na bhi ho. 2: Biwi ke liye zaroori hai ke jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatain hasil karna chahay to us ki khuwahish poori kare aur sharaei uzr(reason periods e.t.c..) ke baghair shohar ko hambistari se nah roke. balke biwi ka apne shohar ko hambistri se mana karna Haram hai, Haan shohar ki razamandi se taakheer (late) karna jaiz hai. 3: Agar Biwi humbistari aur jinsi lazzatoon ke silsile me shohar ki khawaish poori nah kare to shohar roti, kapre aur makan ka zimadar nahin hai agarche wo shohar ke pas hi rahe. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2376,2377). [Updated on 09-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar biwi pehly din s hi shohar k jinsi haqooq adha nhn krti r shohar uska ilaj b krwae mgr orat medication p b na jae zid rkhy k bs koi b jinsi taluq qaim nhn ho skta, blky is kam me unintrested ho to.... wo mardh kia kry?????

Answer: Jawab de diya gaya hai. [Updated on 09-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]