QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Engagement k baad mangetar ko bv kehna jaiz hai?

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter sharhe biwi nahe hote aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho, koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Mujhy kisi sy bht muhabbat hai.Lekin uski ab shadi honay wali hai.Main bht preshan hu, dil karta hai k mar jaon.Koe aisa amal btaen jis sy meri tension door ho jaye.Main apki bht Mashkoor rahu gi.Shukriya

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Question: kya loud speaker lagana jayaz hai khhwateen ki majlis mai

Answer: koi harj nahi, siwaae is sorat main ke majlis pharne wali ki awaaz shehwat ko ubharne wali hai, or ager loud speaker lagaya jaae to mard is ki awaaz sune ge. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 7 , sawaal no # 84 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

Question: Mein ik larki ko pasand karta hn r us sy shadi karna chahta hn kia us sy mesg pe baat karna jaiz hai..???

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k gunah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Assalam o alaikum...mera sawal ye ha k ager koi larka larki se mobile pe baat karen aur us doran larky se white sticky pani niklay jo k mani nahe ho tou kia ghusal wajib hota ha?matlab soch us waqt larky ke gandi ho..

Answer: Jo shaks shadi nah hone ki waja se faile haram me mubtila hota ho is per wajib hay k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Wo ratoobat jo khabi kabar shewat ubhrnay par mard ki sharamgah sai kharij hoti hai osi mazi kehtay hain aur wo paak hai. Aur wazoo ko bhi batil nahi karti (namaz parh saktay hain.)aur wo ratubat jo kabhi kabhi mani k baad kharij hote hai jise wazi kaha jaata hai.ya Wo ratoobat jo baz awqat peshab k bad niklti hai osay wida kehtay hain agar is sai peshab mila hua na ho to pak hai is k alawa is sai ghusl wajib nahi hota hai mazeed ye k jab kise shaks ne pheshaab k baad astabra kiya ho aur is k baad istabra kiya ho aur is k baad ratubat kharij ho jis k bare me shak ho k wo peshaab hai ya maskora baala 3 ratoobato me se kohe aik to wo paak hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 70) Agar kise shaks k badan se koe ratubat kharij ho aur wo ye na janta ho k mani hai ya phishab ya kohe aur cheez agar wo ratubat shewat k sath aur uchal kar nikle ho aur is nikalne k baad badan soos ho ghaya ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum rakhti hai.laikin agar in 3 ealamaat me se sari ki sari ya khuch moujood na ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum me nahe aai ghe. Aur ghusal bhi wajib nahe hogha aur wazu bhi batil nahe hogha (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #,344,345 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: kya khuda k ilawa ksi or sy ishaq jaiz hy

Answer: Khuda ke ilawa un logo se mohabbat(ishq) jaiz ha jin se muhabbat kerne ka hukum khud khuda ne diya ha jaise Aoliya-e-Khuda, waldain wagera. Jins-e-mukhalif (na-mehram) se dosti ka is had tak izhaar kerna ke is se kahe ke muje tum se muhabbat ha, jaiz nahi ha koun ke gunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( Kitab-e-nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae)

Question: asSalam wa alikum, i love my cousin but i did not tell her yet, can i talk to her and make intraction so that she may know that i love her. also y uncle is dead and i dont want her mother to know that i love her. she might fight with my parents...

Answer: Kisi merd k liay na-mehram aurat se doosti ya muhabbat kerna jaiz nahi hay. Haan aap faqat os k ghar nikah ka paighaam behjh sakte hain or dua ker sakte hain. (Ref : Nigah aur libas Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69). Update on dated 17-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Question: A.O.A sir g kisi larki k sath dosti k lia sorat namal ki ayat nomber 31 or sorat qasas ki ayat no 10 parh skty hain mera mtlb ha mera mqsad sex krna ni ha bs freindship ki gharz sy krna chata houn

Answer: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: bataiye yai jaiz h main ek larke se buht piyaar karti hun uske bina jee nahi sakti pehle wo b mujhse baat karta tha ab nahi karta bataiye kia karun main asa js'se wo mere paas loat aaye vapas

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) AND 2) One who recite 686 times bismillah “بسم الله الرحمن الرحیم” and recite 676 times durood “اللہم صلی علی محمد و آلمحمد” (ALLAH HUMMA SOALLI ALA MUHHAMMAD DIN WA AALE MUHHAMAD) then pray, your duas/wishes will be answered. (Ref : Naemul aamaal pg # 317) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: meian ak ladki sy pyar krta hun lakn izhar say darta hn or pata ni wo b muj sy payar krte ha ya ni plz mujy koi wazifa bta den jo k mein parhon to wo mj sy payar b krny lagy or izharr b kr day.

Answer: 1)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtilla honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) AND 2) One who recite 686 times bismillah “بسم الله الرحمن الرحیم” and recite 676 times durood “اللہم صلی علی محمد و آلمحمد” (ALLAH HUMMA SOALLI ALA MUHHAMMAD DIN WA AALE MUHHAMAD) then pray, your duas/wishes will be answered. (Ref : Naemul aamaal pg # 317) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).