Question: asslam o alakium..... kya agr koi kisi k nikah main ho aur ruksati b ho chuki ho ... husbend k pass majood hoty huwy b husbend 8 mah tk hm bistri na kry tw kya nikah makrooh ho jata ha ya toot jata ha.....
Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382, 2335). Update on dated 26-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Kia rukhsati se pehly sex jaez hai or nikah k bad
Answer: Nikah k baad aur rukhsati se phele agar larki apne baap k ghar me ho to us ghar me aane jaane aur biwi se raabte k lie zarori hai k larki k baap se ijazat le le.(ref:resala amliya,author:syed mujtaba hasani,fatwa aqa sistani,pg:184). Update on dated 26-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: jis say pyr krty hu kya us say sexi chaat krna zina hai
Answer: Biwi k alawa kisi doosray sai fahash batain krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34) Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k (yani mard ne apna aala tanasul aurat ki sharamgha me dakil na kiya ho to )zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70) or eska kaffara nahi hota aap sachey dil se toba kar lijye. (Ref : MinhajusSalaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #3 , masla # 16) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) . Update on dated 26-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: meri shadi hogai he or mein ne abhi tak humbisteri nahi ki, kia ye koi gunnah to nahi or humbisteri zaroori he or agar he to shadi ke baad kab tak krleni chaye?
Answer: Shadi ki pehli raat hambistari kerna wajib nahi hay. (Ref : E-mail rcvd from sistani(d.b),dated:26. 05-2010). Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). Update on dated 26-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)
Question: Nikkah k bd shohar apni bivi ko hath lga skta hai ya nhi jb k bivi abi apny ghr ho rukhsati na hui ho
Answer: Nikah k baad shohar ka bivi ko hath lagana jaiz hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Khoe(r.a), Tauzee hul masael, Mafhoom e Maslah #b/f2372). Update on dated 26-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Mra swal ye h k kya shohr or biwi ik dussre k private organs dkhe to gunah hta h? Or uske bd jo olad peda hti wo bemar hti? Kya ye darust h?
Answer: Shohar or bivi ka aik doosray ki sharamgaah ko daikhna jaiz hay.Laikin jima k doran bivi ki sharam gaah ko daikhna makhrooh hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #5 , Eidition 1427 hij). Update on dated 24-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Humbistri k bary main detail btain plz in muharaam
Answer: Muharram main hambistari jaiz hay. (http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/ ). Update on dated 03-10-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: humbistri detail in muharum
Answer: Muharram main hambistari jaiz hay. (http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/ ). Update on dated 03-10-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Muharam mien bivi. Se mubashirat jaiz hai ya nahin
Answer: Muharram main hambistari jaiz hay. (http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01884/ ). Update on dated 05-10-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Kay bowie no shramgah no jousna jazz ha
Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382, 2335). Update on dated 15-02-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).