QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: mera shohar mujh par shaq karta ha main nae bohat koshish ki k usae yaqeen dilaon .Quarn E Pak par bhi halaf dea laikin wo yaqeen hi nhn karta ..is surat main islam kya hukam daita ha

Answer: Khatoon ko chahiay keh wo koe bhi aisa kaam nah kare jis se os ka shohar sahk karne per majboor ho jaey. agar wo bila wajah shak kare tu phir aap ki koe zimadaari nahi.(Ref: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01739/#24948). [Updated on 05-Jun-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Bacha pada hony ka bad husband wife kitny din bad sex kr skty hain

Answer: Bache ka pehla juz maan k pait se bahar aane k waqt se 10 din tak jo khoon aurat ko aay wo khoon e nifaas kehlata hay is shart k sath keh osay zijgi ka khoon kehna sadiq aata ho, ye ho sakta hay k nifaas ka khoon aik lehza se ziyada nah aay laikin 10 dino k baad aane wale khon ko nifas nahi kehte. NIfas ka khoon ruk janay k baad hambistari karna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 41th edition, maslah #498,501,504). [Updated on 21-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Bacha paida hony ka kitny din bad husband wife sex kr skty hai

Answer: Bache ka pehla juz maan k pait se bahar aane k waqt se 10 din tak jo khoon aurat ko aay wo khoon e nifaas kehlata hay is shart k sath keh osay zijgi ka khoon kehna sadiq aata ho, ye ho sakta hay k nifaas ka khoon aik lehza se ziyada nah aay laikin 10 dino k baad aane wale khon ko nifas nahi kehte, Nifas ka khoon ruk janay k baad hambistari karna jaiz hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 41th edition, maslah #498,501,504). [Updated on 19-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Halate haiz me shadi ki pahle rat ko humbistari karna kaisa hai?

Answer: Halat e haiz mai aurat ki farj (vagina) mai dukhool (intercourse) karna haraam hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 448). [Updated on 21-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mera husband muqam e pekhana wali jaga apna auzo e tanasul dkhil karna chahte ha kiya ye durust ha?

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(anal sex) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay). (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). [Updated on 22-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Mera husband mujha apna muqam e pishab mera mouth me lena ka kehta ha, kiya ye gaiz ha?

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga (yani choomna wagira) saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). [Updated on 22-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: mera sawal hai k miya biwi oral sex kar sakte hein?

Answer: Shohar aur biwi danoo apne badan k kisi bhi hissa ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissa se mus kar sakhte hein chahae lazat se ho ya baghair lazzat k. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 465 , 406 pg # 254 , 236) 3) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.isi terah biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main le ker masht zani(masturbation/hand practice)) kar sakti hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). [Updated on 22-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Assalam o alikum mjhe pochna ye hai maine apni bv ki sharamgah mai pani chor diya shadi ki raat.. Mai is amal ko kab tk kr sakta hun q ke shyd 3 4 month mai pregnant hojygi Tou mai roz pani chor sakta hun jab tk bacha is duniya mai nahi ata?

Answer: 1)Jee han, bivi se rooz hambistari sakte hain, Jab biwi hamila ho to wuzu kar k hambistri karna mustahib he. 2) Haamilah biwi say Intercourse kerna haram nahi hay.Biwi say halat e haiz (period) or nifaas main hambistari kerna haraam hay. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen,part#3,maslah#5 (tauzeehul masail,Ayatullah Sistani (d.b.),maslah #2382).,email Received from Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah#448,504).(Note: Doran e hamal jima kertay waqt is baat ka zaroor khayaal rakha jay k jima k waqt bivi k pait per apnay jism ka wazan nah daalain, is say bache ko nuqsaan pohanch sakta hay. aam taur per doctor hazraat 8th mahinay say jima kernay say mana kertay hain. laikin ye her aurat ki jismani kaifiyaat or taqat per munhasir (depend) hota hay. hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or bache ko nuqsan pohchanay wali chizoo say perhaiz karain.) [Updated on 29-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Aslamualykum Sir Mera Apse Ye sawal hai kia mia bivi ek dosry ko hathon se farigh ker skty hain kia ye jaiz hai islam main?

Answer: Biwi se istimna karwana jaiz hay.(Ref:https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01734/). Shohar apne bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli(finger) daal sakta hai aur ungli(finger) daal ker mani nikaal sakta hay laikin jism k hissay k alawa koe aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi ker saktay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012). [Updated on 28-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

Question: Agar bivi humbistri passand na krti ho means ke thandi ho 2 weeks bad b humbistri ke leye mushkil se tayar hoti ho to is situation me husband kia kry

Answer: Agar koi aurat humbistri aur jinsi lazzaton k silsile mai shohar ka saath na day kar us ki khuwaish poori na karay tou us aurat k roti kapray makaan ka shohar zimedaar nahi hai.is k ilawa shohar us ko talaq daine ka haq bhi rakhta hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 2377) [Updated on 29-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]