Question: Salam.hamal.therany k liye kitni bar sex krna chaiye meri abi new marriage hui h so plzz bta den??
Answer: (Note: Aurtain is lehaza se mukhtalif hoti hain, koi aurat aik martaba hi jima us ka hamal theher jata hai. aur kisi se sath is tarah ka mamala nahin hota ). Mard jima say farigh hone k baad aurat se aahistagi se alag ho jaey or aurat kuch dair tak chit laity rahe, aur apni rano ko milaey takeh hamal therne main asani ho. (Ref: Islam or jinsiyaat, pg #151). [Updated on 26-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Biwi ke halak me spume chala jana thik hai ki nahi
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) [Updated on 27-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Agar bivi k breast mai milk ni ata ho tou kia shohar choss sakta hai ?
Answer: Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay, laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) [Updated on 27-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mera sawal ye hai k biwi kisi gair mard k sath dosti or jinsi talookat rakh sakti hai?? Shohar usey jinsi hawale se satisfied na karta ho to wo dusre mardo se bat kr skti hai?
Answer: 1)Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hain kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. (Ref . Isteftat Aqai Sistani) 2)na mehram ko choona bhi jaaiz nahi hai or hambistari karna zina hoga.(Ref: A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masail, masalah # 259,239). 3)Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) sai nikah nahi kar sakti hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail edition #42, maslah #2367). [Updated on 01-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Kia Biwi Ko Behn Bol Dene Se Talaq ho jati h
Answer: jee nahi maktab e jafferia mai aisi baaton sai talaak nahi hoti.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 2462-2472). [Updated on 01-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mera swaal ye ha k kia peechay se hambistri krnay se hamal thehrnay ka khadsha hota ha ?
Answer: Jee nahin, Is se hamal nahin theherta. Lekin Biwi k peechay k maqam main hambistari karna(yani anal sex) biwi k raazi na hone ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref: Islam or jinsiyaat, pg #151)+(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah #67). [Updated on 05-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Salam mera sawalyeh hai ke sahdi ke baad sex ka kiya tariqa Hai.kese karna chaye kon si Position sehi hai aur kon si maqro.
Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab biwi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makrooh hain un main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main , 7. islami mahinay ki darmiani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgah ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 ). [Updated on 06-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Shohar ka bivi ki salary pa haq
Answer: Jee nahin koi haq nahin. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masail, edition #42, mafhoom e maslah #2376,2377). [Updated on 17-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Kissing on hidden part of wife
Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga (yani choomna wagira) saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 [Updated on 23-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Sir Mera question ye hy k Mera husband out of city Hota kB us ka sex Krny ka bht dil.krta tu wo video chat pr krty Mery Sath Kya ye jaiz hy
Answer: Jee biwi k saath is tareeqay ki baatein karna jaiz hain laikin is had tak nah ho keh jazbaat qabo main nah rahain or apne sath koe aisa kaam karain jis se .(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) [Updated on 27-Mar-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]