QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Salam, Sawal..., 1 - god liya huwa ladka ya ladki mahram hai ya na mahram hai baligh hone pe ? please tafseel me samjhane ki zahmat karen, Jazakallah Fiamanillah Zeeshan

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Na-mehram hai.(Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2349 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: Kya parai ladki se taluqat rakhana thik hai?

Answer: Gee nahi ye jaiz nahi. (Ref : nigaah o lebaas , baab # 4 , pg # 100 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: Kiy adult ladki begair parde k school jana jayez hai

Answer: Gee nahi, parda kerna wajib hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2399 , ALLAH tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: Assalamo alekum, sir meri age 23 sal he or mene nursing ki he,agr me job karti hu to kya mujhe gunah lgega. Kya Islaam ladkiyo ko job karne ki izazat deta he..mera swal dekhne k liye aapka bhut bhut shukriya.ALLAH hafiz

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, ager is main koi haraam kaam karna phare (masalan mardo ke sar o garden ke ilawa badan per nazar karni phare , namehram dost banane phare jin se dosti buraae ka bais bane or Sharai Ehkaam ka khayal na rakha jaye) to jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : nigaah o lebaas , [baab # 1 , pg # 28] , [baab # 4 , pg # 100] , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

Question: Kya mangter se bt krna jazz ha

Answer: ager baat cheet aam mamool ke mutabiq ho or is main koi shehwat anggeez guftugoo bhi na ho or na hi is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho or na hi haraam main pharne ka der ho to in ke baat karne main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , hissa # 3 , masala # 115)

Question: Aoa sir mujy divorce hue ha ma ab claass fellow sa shadi krna chati ho wo be us k parents razi ha mary nahe mujy koe waziafa batiay k mary kehnay sa bagair wo khud mann jiay caste nd maslak k be farak ha plz help mee

Answer: Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352)

Question: Mai 1 jaga shadi krna chahta ho magar larki walay razi nai hen mal or deen ki kami ki waja se ap mjhe Kch batayen jis se wo razi ho jayen

Answer: Jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna (jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: agr koi na mehram breast ko zabardasti touch kr ly tou kya woh zina men shamil hota ha?

Answer: Mard k leye namehram aurat k badan ya baal ko maas karna haram hai.(laikin agar dokhul na hoa ho yani mard ne apna penis (ala tanasul) aurat ki sharam gha me dakhil na kiya ho to ye zina nahe hai) (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 16)

Question: ASALAM OALIKUM MARA SAWAL YA HA K MA AIK LARKY KO BOHT LIKE KRTI HN WO MJY LIKE NI KRTA PLEASE KOI ASA WASIFA BTA DYN K WO MJY LIKE KRY AUR MJ SY BT KRY AUR MRI US SY SHADI HO JY

Answer: jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna(jesa larke or larki ka apas men dosti krna) jaiz nahi hai koun k gunah men mubtilla hone ka khof majood hai.(Ref : Kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). Ak larki ka kisi no-jawan se dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi to ek dam nhi hoti bal k shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Question: Mere mangetar mujhe peche se karte hen kehte hen shadi k baad aage se karonga me boht preshan hon kia peche se karne se ghusal wajib hota he please zaroor bataayen....

Answer: Mangheter namehram hai aur namehram aurat k jisam ko dhekna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397,before 2328 ) Sharaai nikah k begair mard (orat) k lye kise bhi aurat (or mard) se jinse taluqat qaim karna haram hai, or zina karna bhi haram hai aur ghuna kabira me se hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30,eidition 2009) Jo shaks shadi na kerne ki wajah se haram kam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31). agar koi shakhs aurat sai jima kray aur uzwa_e_tanasul (penis) supari ki miqdar tk ya is sai ziada dhakil ho jae to ye dhokool faraj mai ho ya dubr(back side) aur chahae balig ho ya na balig aur chahae mani kharij ho ya na ho donoo mujnib ho jatay hain. Aur namaz ya is jaisi doosri ibadatoo k lie ghusl e janabat krna wajib hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #,348,356) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).